Hello there. As the title of this thread suggests, I am looking for a bit of advice on how I should go about becoming officially emancipated. First, I'll supply you with a brief back story leading up to this point in time. Granted, it will not cover every aspect of my life, because, well, I don't think you'd want to read through page after page of events that have little or nothing to do with what I am trying to accomplish. Anyway, here we go.
I am a 17 year old male-to-female transsexual living in New Jersey. Neither of my parents support the idea that I am transsexual, and have basically sent me to psychologists and psychiatrists to whom they have been assured that they would "change my mind". I obviously have not transitioned, nor have I really done anything physically to prepare for the lifelong endeavor of becoming a passable female. If I had the choice, I would have chosen to transition years ago.
In the past year or so, I have not been attending school regularly. The daily stress of school, my personal stress with my body, plus the (in my opinion) unnecessary home stress have been too much for me to handle; so unfortunately my schoolwork suffered. It isn't that I cannot handle stress, but more because I have been overwhelmed by it, with absolutely no escape from it, or even a way to vent. I firmly believe that if one of these stresses are eliminated or reduced, I would be able to function fine. Emancipation is one of my only viable options left.
In regards to the stress at home, I cannot adequately convey the scale of it. The majority of my stress comes from my home life and my parents. Neither of them are working, or have been working in the past year and a half. They both do drugs (cocaine and prescription pain killers), are asleep 70% of the time, and barely ever leave their room (my mom is the exception there; she does laundry, runs the dishwasher, and makes one meal a day). Our home is in foreclosure, and my mom was just let out of jail (she was arrested because she missed her court date for multiple problems, including over $100,000 debt, and forging checks to try and cash). My home life has not been easy, but please understand, I am not trying to cast the blame solely on my parents. There are numerous other factors that tie in here.
In essence, this is my plan: Take the test for my GED and pass (easy to do); get a full time job (still easy; I found a place that will hire me and is right up the road); make enough money to move out of here and get to some of my friends (and my uncle ^_^) in California; stay there a year to establish residency; attend University of California: Davis to become a veterinarian.
There are a couple of scenarios that will likely happen. My father may commit to what he has been saying for a while, and throw me out of the house. The other possibility is that he might let me stay here and earn up the money, but when I try to move out, fight me legally as I attempt to leave his control. If my father throws me out of the house, does that aid my case on being emancipated? What can I do if he fights me legally? Is there any other advice that you can offer?
More information can be provided if it is needed.
Thank you!
(P.S. I also realize that New Jersey doesn't really have an emancipation law, so I'd have to go elsewhere for that. I also understand that I need to be completely self-sufficient. That should not be too hard, as my parents are only providing me with the basic needs as of right now; food, shelter, and clothing. In fact, I am using our neighbor's internet access to post this.)
I am a 17 year old male-to-female transsexual living in New Jersey. Neither of my parents support the idea that I am transsexual, and have basically sent me to psychologists and psychiatrists to whom they have been assured that they would "change my mind". I obviously have not transitioned, nor have I really done anything physically to prepare for the lifelong endeavor of becoming a passable female. If I had the choice, I would have chosen to transition years ago.
In the past year or so, I have not been attending school regularly. The daily stress of school, my personal stress with my body, plus the (in my opinion) unnecessary home stress have been too much for me to handle; so unfortunately my schoolwork suffered. It isn't that I cannot handle stress, but more because I have been overwhelmed by it, with absolutely no escape from it, or even a way to vent. I firmly believe that if one of these stresses are eliminated or reduced, I would be able to function fine. Emancipation is one of my only viable options left.
In regards to the stress at home, I cannot adequately convey the scale of it. The majority of my stress comes from my home life and my parents. Neither of them are working, or have been working in the past year and a half. They both do drugs (cocaine and prescription pain killers), are asleep 70% of the time, and barely ever leave their room (my mom is the exception there; she does laundry, runs the dishwasher, and makes one meal a day). Our home is in foreclosure, and my mom was just let out of jail (she was arrested because she missed her court date for multiple problems, including over $100,000 debt, and forging checks to try and cash). My home life has not been easy, but please understand, I am not trying to cast the blame solely on my parents. There are numerous other factors that tie in here.
In essence, this is my plan: Take the test for my GED and pass (easy to do); get a full time job (still easy; I found a place that will hire me and is right up the road); make enough money to move out of here and get to some of my friends (and my uncle ^_^) in California; stay there a year to establish residency; attend University of California: Davis to become a veterinarian.
There are a couple of scenarios that will likely happen. My father may commit to what he has been saying for a while, and throw me out of the house. The other possibility is that he might let me stay here and earn up the money, but when I try to move out, fight me legally as I attempt to leave his control. If my father throws me out of the house, does that aid my case on being emancipated? What can I do if he fights me legally? Is there any other advice that you can offer?
More information can be provided if it is needed.
Thank you!
(P.S. I also realize that New Jersey doesn't really have an emancipation law, so I'd have to go elsewhere for that. I also understand that I need to be completely self-sufficient. That should not be too hard, as my parents are only providing me with the basic needs as of right now; food, shelter, and clothing. In fact, I am using our neighbor's internet access to post this.)