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Not sure if this is the right forum but since she is a teen I am posting here. I need help asap with info on how to get my daughter out of inpatient facility that is not doing her any good.
She is a great daughter, great personality and not perfect but great! She got involved with a 20 yr old who has done nothing but put her down and play mind games with her and finally she tried to take her life by overdosing on tuesday nite. I really don't believe she wanted to die but I think she wanted him to find out what she tried to do and he would fall all over her. We tried to make her understand she could have been gone forever and he wouldn't have cared, but she would hurt the people who loved her most.
Anyway to get to the legal part, the social worker at the hospital gave us 2 choices to either get help outside or inpatient help. She recommended inpatient because she said it would only be a 3 day evaluation and done with. OK we go to visit her the day she is to go to this mental health palce and talk with case worker and now she said it could be longe maybe by a few days etc. I got upset and told her we talked about the 3 days and she agreed that was all. Then she wanted to send her to one place that I knew about and no child should ever go there. I asked her if she ever went to visit this place and she of course never did. I refused to send her there. She then recommended this other place and again she has never been there but said it was better.
I decided I wanted to take my daughter home and get outside help. She threatened then they would admit her involuntary and we would have no say. We were all upset ovwer this threat and finally agreed to send her there. The place might be a step better than the other but it is terrible. Whatever evaluation they do its basicly about 1 to 2 hours in the evening I think. Other wise she is in a room by herself or out in day room and she is getting so upset. I ahte to see her that way! I know we can help her get better care. Is there anything we can do to get her home since we all agreed to voluntarily admit her?
I need to know asap on my rights so I can get her started with the right care not this institutionalized care where they are all treated as one not individuals. The teen rooms are overcrowded they put her in with 4 to 12 year olds.
Please let me know what steps to take? And when I told the casewrker at the hospital I wanted to take her home she said can you watch her 24/7 and I said yes she said apparently not because she wouldn't have done what she did! That really shock me up! Was I supposed to watch a 15 yr old who had no previous problems 24/7?
Thank you
Not sure if this is the right forum but since she is a teen I am posting here. I need help asap with info on how to get my daughter out of inpatient facility that is not doing her any good.
She is a great daughter, great personality and not perfect but great! She got involved with a 20 yr old who has done nothing but put her down and play mind games with her and finally she tried to take her life by overdosing on tuesday nite. I really don't believe she wanted to die but I think she wanted him to find out what she tried to do and he would fall all over her. We tried to make her understand she could have been gone forever and he wouldn't have cared, but she would hurt the people who loved her most.
Anyway to get to the legal part, the social worker at the hospital gave us 2 choices to either get help outside or inpatient help. She recommended inpatient because she said it would only be a 3 day evaluation and done with. OK we go to visit her the day she is to go to this mental health palce and talk with case worker and now she said it could be longe maybe by a few days etc. I got upset and told her we talked about the 3 days and she agreed that was all. Then she wanted to send her to one place that I knew about and no child should ever go there. I asked her if she ever went to visit this place and she of course never did. I refused to send her there. She then recommended this other place and again she has never been there but said it was better.
I decided I wanted to take my daughter home and get outside help. She threatened then they would admit her involuntary and we would have no say. We were all upset ovwer this threat and finally agreed to send her there. The place might be a step better than the other but it is terrible. Whatever evaluation they do its basicly about 1 to 2 hours in the evening I think. Other wise she is in a room by herself or out in day room and she is getting so upset. I ahte to see her that way! I know we can help her get better care. Is there anything we can do to get her home since we all agreed to voluntarily admit her?
I need to know asap on my rights so I can get her started with the right care not this institutionalized care where they are all treated as one not individuals. The teen rooms are overcrowded they put her in with 4 to 12 year olds.
Please let me know what steps to take? And when I told the casewrker at the hospital I wanted to take her home she said can you watch her 24/7 and I said yes she said apparently not because she wouldn't have done what she did! That really shock me up! Was I supposed to watch a 15 yr old who had no previous problems 24/7?
Thank you