wow - this kid is FIVE years old! I don't know of any kids that aren't curious about private parts, I mean I think every kid I knew at that age tried the "show mine show yours" game at some point! It isn't sexual, it is curiosity MOST of the time! I think calling CPS is going a little overboard! At five years old parents should be approaching the child with a talk of boundaries without a doubt, and these children DID cross a line with this behaviour. Did the little girl engage in the "play" willingly or was she forced into her pants being pulled down?
If forceful, then yes, there are some REAL problems, but if this was a game they all were playing, they all need to have a serious talk about boundaries and not crossing them and leave it at that! Don't scare the kid senseless and make him horrified that he was curious about genitals!
We are a society that shows more cleavage on commercials, more skin in cartoons and "family" sitcoms, and we freak out when our children start playing sexually or showing any natural curiosity. This is a five year old for goodness sakes!
Mom - they have some great kids books for curious boys - I looked into it when I found my 7 yr old had ripped out a victoria secrets bra ad out of one of my magazines and stuffed it under his pillow!
I talked to a therapist about it even - she laughed at me for thinking it was !GASP! sexual and asked if I breastfed - I said yes, for 18 months and she said he simply felt security there. Something i had never even thought of - but made sense as we had just moved and I had a new baby I was breastfeeding and 7 yr old was sleeping alone in his own bed every night in a new room. Lots of changes for a young kid in a very short time...
Anyhoo...good luck, I hope they dont' take this up with attorneys because they will probably try to pull your entire family through the mud and prove exactly what one of the other posters was insinuating....something sick and nasty going on in the home!
Maybe you should just turn off the tv, that way your kids never see skin or sexuality.