Wrongedmychild
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What is the name of your state? Texas
I have had custody of my son since he was 8, he is now 16. My son is sociable yet poite, always yes mam, yes sir, no mam, no sir. Very protective of animals and anyone who cannot fend for themselves.
I allowed my son to live with his father for this school year because he needed some time with him. My ex has been raising his 7 yr old daughter(from current wife) because of her mothers drug use and refusal to make her go to school. He and his current wife are divorcing now and my son has been caught in the middle. After picking up her daughter for a weekend visit and refused to bring her back home to go to school the next week.
The following story comes from the mother's stepfather....
Over the weekend the mother and her boyfriend took the little girl to a hospital for examination for sexual molestation. After examination the doctor and nurse both told the mother that nothing had happened to the child, that she had no irritation or damage, that she had not been messed with in anyway. The mother protested and wanted to press charges. The doctor, nurse and police officer repeatedly told her that there was no basis for charges. She persisted until they took her statement and she was able to press charges on my son.
Two weeks later a probation officer came and picked up my son and had him put in a detention center. For seven days my son was in that detention center being verbaly abused, mentally and emotionaly beat down. He spent his Thanksgiving in there, we were allowed to talk to him only one time in the entire seven day period. we were refused when we asked for evidence of his guilt. Refused any information on the case at all. Everyone said that because they are minors that they couldn't tell us anything. On the day the detention personell took him to court, the District Attorney and Judge said that the evidence did not support him being in jail. The DA stated "I simply do not believe that this boy is like that, there is no evidence to back up the charges" The Probation officer had told my son and his father before going in that morning, that "there is no way that my son would get to be released into parental custody, this boy is gonna go back to jaill and stay in jail!" This was told to them before court by the probation officer. My son was taken out of normal school and treated like a convicted criminal, secluded off campus in AEP (alternative education program). He is not allowed on any school campus and cannot go out of the very small county he lives in. We have repeatedly asked the Probation officer and assistant District Attorney what is happening with the case. They told us no new evidence. Yet every time my son has went in to his probation appointments the officer has been nasty and very derogatory. Yesterday his whole attitide changed and he told my son and his father that "if my son moves back with me that all charges will be dropped and when he turns 18 then he can come back to see his father" What kind of law is this. My son has not been given any legal council, the DA kept telling us that one would be appointed if he went to trial. How can they run my son out of the state like that. He is innocent and they know it, all of the pshyc evals have shown him to be of college level intellegence and very emotionally stable. He has not missed a day of school and has an average of 97 in AEP. On the other hand the llittle 7 yr old who is staying with her motherr(the accuser) has missed over 2 weeks of school, has a 50 average and cries to her daddy on the phone when he gets to talk to her. The mother refuses to let her daddy see her, there has been no actionfrom the athorities to implement this, the mother has just refused to let him see his daughter.
They want my son out of the state, and let this woman go free after what she has done to my son. He has been scarred for life from this. And what of the 7 days of time he served?
I need some advice, how do I make sure that this is taken off my son's record? And what recourse do I have to prosecute this woman and the people who jailed my son for no reason. He is a minor too and his rights have been totally ignored.
I have had custody of my son since he was 8, he is now 16. My son is sociable yet poite, always yes mam, yes sir, no mam, no sir. Very protective of animals and anyone who cannot fend for themselves.
I allowed my son to live with his father for this school year because he needed some time with him. My ex has been raising his 7 yr old daughter(from current wife) because of her mothers drug use and refusal to make her go to school. He and his current wife are divorcing now and my son has been caught in the middle. After picking up her daughter for a weekend visit and refused to bring her back home to go to school the next week.
The following story comes from the mother's stepfather....
Over the weekend the mother and her boyfriend took the little girl to a hospital for examination for sexual molestation. After examination the doctor and nurse both told the mother that nothing had happened to the child, that she had no irritation or damage, that she had not been messed with in anyway. The mother protested and wanted to press charges. The doctor, nurse and police officer repeatedly told her that there was no basis for charges. She persisted until they took her statement and she was able to press charges on my son.
Two weeks later a probation officer came and picked up my son and had him put in a detention center. For seven days my son was in that detention center being verbaly abused, mentally and emotionaly beat down. He spent his Thanksgiving in there, we were allowed to talk to him only one time in the entire seven day period. we were refused when we asked for evidence of his guilt. Refused any information on the case at all. Everyone said that because they are minors that they couldn't tell us anything. On the day the detention personell took him to court, the District Attorney and Judge said that the evidence did not support him being in jail. The DA stated "I simply do not believe that this boy is like that, there is no evidence to back up the charges" The Probation officer had told my son and his father before going in that morning, that "there is no way that my son would get to be released into parental custody, this boy is gonna go back to jaill and stay in jail!" This was told to them before court by the probation officer. My son was taken out of normal school and treated like a convicted criminal, secluded off campus in AEP (alternative education program). He is not allowed on any school campus and cannot go out of the very small county he lives in. We have repeatedly asked the Probation officer and assistant District Attorney what is happening with the case. They told us no new evidence. Yet every time my son has went in to his probation appointments the officer has been nasty and very derogatory. Yesterday his whole attitide changed and he told my son and his father that "if my son moves back with me that all charges will be dropped and when he turns 18 then he can come back to see his father" What kind of law is this. My son has not been given any legal council, the DA kept telling us that one would be appointed if he went to trial. How can they run my son out of the state like that. He is innocent and they know it, all of the pshyc evals have shown him to be of college level intellegence and very emotionally stable. He has not missed a day of school and has an average of 97 in AEP. On the other hand the llittle 7 yr old who is staying with her motherr(the accuser) has missed over 2 weeks of school, has a 50 average and cries to her daddy on the phone when he gets to talk to her. The mother refuses to let her daddy see her, there has been no actionfrom the athorities to implement this, the mother has just refused to let him see his daughter.
They want my son out of the state, and let this woman go free after what she has done to my son. He has been scarred for life from this. And what of the 7 days of time he served?
I need some advice, how do I make sure that this is taken off my son's record? And what recourse do I have to prosecute this woman and the people who jailed my son for no reason. He is a minor too and his rights have been totally ignored.
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