Interestedeyes
Junior Member
I'm in New Hampshire. Here is my dilemma...
I had my first child 5 weeks ago. The father and I both strongly disagreed on whether or not to circumcise our son. It is very important to me to have it done as I just lost my grandfather 5 months ago to penile cancer specifically due to not being circumcised. So needless to say this is a sensitive issue for me. The father of my child's arguments were that he wanted his son to "look like him" and that he wanted him to enjoy sex when he got older.
Apparently the common practice in NH is that a doctor typically will not perform the procedure if the parents are in disagreement. So he wins by default.
I'm wondering if there is anything I can do to fight this? I've tried contacting numerous Drs offices and nobody will get back to me.
As his mother I feel like I should be able to do something. I feel so defeated. I cry often when I think that my right to do best by my son was taken away from me.
Any information or advice would be greatly appreciated.
Amanda
I had my first child 5 weeks ago. The father and I both strongly disagreed on whether or not to circumcise our son. It is very important to me to have it done as I just lost my grandfather 5 months ago to penile cancer specifically due to not being circumcised. So needless to say this is a sensitive issue for me. The father of my child's arguments were that he wanted his son to "look like him" and that he wanted him to enjoy sex when he got older.
Apparently the common practice in NH is that a doctor typically will not perform the procedure if the parents are in disagreement. So he wins by default.
I'm wondering if there is anything I can do to fight this? I've tried contacting numerous Drs offices and nobody will get back to me.
As his mother I feel like I should be able to do something. I feel so defeated. I cry often when I think that my right to do best by my son was taken away from me.
Any information or advice would be greatly appreciated.
Amanda