victimlesscrime
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Lansing, Illinois
i got arrested for Domestic battery and assault, or domestic assault and battery, lol idk. But the accuser was my mother who claimed i pushed her, which i did in self defense when i was 15 when i was much smaller and when she would be on top of me.
i was arrested when i was 16, after she had hit me and i ran out of the house, without touching her. She started hitting my dog because i was outside, so i ran to the door and opened it and Marley came by me outside. She was scared and called the cops, i was calm and scared outside.
whatever, they booked me, made it out as i was a woman beater and this violent offender. They never told me what i was being charged with, and i was released to a CCBYS worker who took me to a temporary crisis home. i came home 5 days later, went to counseling with my mom who started hitting me in the counselors office. Her and her counselor are buddy buddies and both women, and i felt like i was teamed up on after the counselor didnt do anything till 20 minutes later, she called the cops on me. Cops came, i didnt do anything so they didnt arrest me or anything just talked to me and told me i was the problem..
It'd been 2 weeks since i was arrested, nothing in the mail.
Well my mom brings me to the Markham courthouse where they have a saturday bootcamp.
my mom and i had to talk to the person in charge of the bootcamp, some fat lady cop. She got all "tuff" on me and wanted me to be scared. we talked for a while, my mom exaggerating 90% of it, like women do.
Now, this lady goes over a list of conditions that i was supposed to sign but i refused. after i refused she says" you just ****ed yourself. now i can tell the judge any lie i want, saying that your incompliant(sp?).
among the conditions of the bootcamp i have a curfew, 4 30 weekdays and 6 30 weekdays. I'll be getting pee tested, and she says ill be on probation for 1 year.
Now i know its not illegal to fail a drug test for marijuana unless its court ordered, right? well she said that if my pee was dirty, she was gonna go infront of a judge and put me away for drugs. i wasnt allowed to speak so i couldnt ask her what she was gonna put me away for. she made it seem like i would go to prison, and get raped.
1)probation comes from a guilty sentencing, no?
2)if i fail this boot camp drug test, whats the worst that could happen?
3)fat lady says she pulled my license, which may be true if my mom said to do it.
4)do i have to do what this boot camp says even though it's not court ordered?
5) can my mom just sign me up for probation?
i would honestly rather go to court and get sentenced if found guilty than probation.
my mother got me started smoking, got me into it saying its the safest thing possible and to not do any other drugs, which i listened to i dont touch anything else not even alchy. now all of a sudden she wants me off it, which is weird because my whole family are pot heads. Im not a violent kid or dangerous im a smart stoner who smokes at home
the reason she started beating me the night i was arrested was because my clothes were in the hallway, sorted into piles. She does not understand that i'd never be in the system if it wasnt for her. i feel like my own mother is setting me up for some type of failure. again, ive been smoking, doing what i do for 3 years. never harmed anyone, never stole, never got into a fight. infact i love. ima hippie
if it wasnt for my mother, i would never have a run in with the pigs.
i wish i had a father around to smack
some sense into her or so i could go live with him! fml im only 16
ALSO, she takes me places and just drives off, leaving me there. what can i do about that???
honestly i may "get smart" with people but only once they start lying, and ****ing with me. i can and do push her buttons with my words, but only when she starts up with me. Me, myself, i dont even try to talk to her first or anything.
oh and i sort of hate women now, besides their u-know-what
i got arrested for Domestic battery and assault, or domestic assault and battery, lol idk. But the accuser was my mother who claimed i pushed her, which i did in self defense when i was 15 when i was much smaller and when she would be on top of me.
i was arrested when i was 16, after she had hit me and i ran out of the house, without touching her. She started hitting my dog because i was outside, so i ran to the door and opened it and Marley came by me outside. She was scared and called the cops, i was calm and scared outside.
whatever, they booked me, made it out as i was a woman beater and this violent offender. They never told me what i was being charged with, and i was released to a CCBYS worker who took me to a temporary crisis home. i came home 5 days later, went to counseling with my mom who started hitting me in the counselors office. Her and her counselor are buddy buddies and both women, and i felt like i was teamed up on after the counselor didnt do anything till 20 minutes later, she called the cops on me. Cops came, i didnt do anything so they didnt arrest me or anything just talked to me and told me i was the problem..
It'd been 2 weeks since i was arrested, nothing in the mail.
Well my mom brings me to the Markham courthouse where they have a saturday bootcamp.
my mom and i had to talk to the person in charge of the bootcamp, some fat lady cop. She got all "tuff" on me and wanted me to be scared. we talked for a while, my mom exaggerating 90% of it, like women do.
Now, this lady goes over a list of conditions that i was supposed to sign but i refused. after i refused she says" you just ****ed yourself. now i can tell the judge any lie i want, saying that your incompliant(sp?).
among the conditions of the bootcamp i have a curfew, 4 30 weekdays and 6 30 weekdays. I'll be getting pee tested, and she says ill be on probation for 1 year.
Now i know its not illegal to fail a drug test for marijuana unless its court ordered, right? well she said that if my pee was dirty, she was gonna go infront of a judge and put me away for drugs. i wasnt allowed to speak so i couldnt ask her what she was gonna put me away for. she made it seem like i would go to prison, and get raped.
1)probation comes from a guilty sentencing, no?
2)if i fail this boot camp drug test, whats the worst that could happen?
3)fat lady says she pulled my license, which may be true if my mom said to do it.
4)do i have to do what this boot camp says even though it's not court ordered?
5) can my mom just sign me up for probation?
i would honestly rather go to court and get sentenced if found guilty than probation.
ive never been in front of a judge, never sentenced, no prior convictions
i planned on taking this assault charges to court because im not guilty
i dont mind the boot camp, sounds rather conditioning which i would secretly like, but i still would like to smoke pot
i planned on taking this assault charges to court because im not guilty
i dont mind the boot camp, sounds rather conditioning which i would secretly like, but i still would like to smoke pot
my mother got me started smoking, got me into it saying its the safest thing possible and to not do any other drugs, which i listened to i dont touch anything else not even alchy. now all of a sudden she wants me off it, which is weird because my whole family are pot heads. Im not a violent kid or dangerous im a smart stoner who smokes at home
the reason she started beating me the night i was arrested was because my clothes were in the hallway, sorted into piles. She does not understand that i'd never be in the system if it wasnt for her. i feel like my own mother is setting me up for some type of failure. again, ive been smoking, doing what i do for 3 years. never harmed anyone, never stole, never got into a fight. infact i love. ima hippie
if it wasnt for my mother, i would never have a run in with the pigs.
i wish i had a father around to smack
some sense into her or so i could go live with him! fml im only 16ALSO, she takes me places and just drives off, leaving me there. what can i do about that???
honestly i may "get smart" with people but only once they start lying, and ****ing with me. i can and do push her buttons with my words, but only when she starts up with me. Me, myself, i dont even try to talk to her first or anything.
oh and i sort of hate women now, besides their u-know-what
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