Out of control Juvenile

[jacobskp]

What is the name of your state? Ca.

I am a single parent father of a 17 year old boy, who has been nothing but trouble. My most recent problem was trusting to be responsible enough to handle things while I was out of country for 2 weeks. To make a long story short, I assinged a guardian but still my son found a way to have 2 parties while I was gone. Both with underaged drinking and drugs. On top of this they, and my son, stole a lot of personal items from my home. And when confronted my son denied all of it, and ran away. The next thing I knew, I had Child Protective Services on my back. My son called them and made up a bunch of false alligations which were proven to be so, later by the CPS case worker. I'm now being forced to move out of my current place of residence because of his actions. He dosen't turn 18 until the Sept. My question is, what are my options, what can I do to not be held responsible for what he does? By taking him with me, it'll only give him another oppurtunity to do me wrong, or ask him to leave and can I do that?

 

[BL]

What is the name of your state? Ca.

I am a single parent father of a 17 year old boy, who has been nothing but trouble. My most recent problem was trusting to be responsible enough to handle things while I was out of country for 2 weeks. To make a long story short, I assinged a guardian but still my son found a way to have 2 parties while I was gone. Both with underaged drinking and drugs. On top of this they, and my son, stole a lot of personal items from my home. And when confronted my son denied all of it, and ran away. The next thing I knew, I had Child Protective Services on my back. My son called them and made up a bunch of false alligations which were proven to be so, later by the CPS case worker. I'm now being forced to move out of my current place of residence because of his actions. He dosen't turn 18 until the Sept. My question is, what are my options, what can I do to not be held responsible for what he does? By taking him with me, it'll only give him another oppurtunity to do me wrong, or ask him to leave and can I do that?

Tell him when you're forced to move , His/your bought belonging are being put on the curb , and he's not welcome to come along .

 

[CALIF-LAWPRO45]

What is the name of your state? Ca.

I am a single parent father of a 17 year old boy, who has been nothing but trouble. My most recent problem was trusting to be responsible enough to handle things while I was out of country for 2 weeks. To make a long story short, I assinged a guardian but still my son found a way to have 2 parties while I was gone. Both with underaged drinking and drugs. On top of this they, and my son, stole a lot of personal items from my home. And when confronted my son denied all of it, and ran away. The next thing I knew, I had Child Protective Services on my back. My son called them and made up a bunch of false alligations which were proven to be so, later by the CPS case worker. I'm now being forced to move out of my current place of residence because of his actions. He dosen't turn 18 until the Sept. My question is, what are my options, what can I do to not be held responsible for what he does? By taking him with me, it'll only give him another oppurtunity to do me wrong, or ask him to leave and can I do that?

This is really very simple.

You tell him that in 1 month, you're both going on a "mother/son vacation" to Brazil. How fun! And, that you're both going to take in the sights and local culture. That's the story you tell him.

Then, you take yourself and him to get your pictures taken for your Passports.

Then, after you get your Passports, you buy two tickets to Brazil - - a round trip ticket for you, and a one-way ticket for him.

You both fly to Brazil.

You get into a cab from the airport and go to the hotel where you've previously made room arrangements.

You get to the hotel and get to your rooms, but do not unpack your bags!

After getting him settled into his room, you take his Passport without letting him see you. You then tell him you're going to the gift shop for a magazine.

However, the reality is that you're going to the front desk with an envelope. In the envelope is two hundred dollars in Brazilian money, and your note to him - -

"Dear Sonnyboy: So, you think you're old enough to dislike me and Dad, and to give us continual trouble? Then you're old enough to take care of yourself. I hope you like your new home and country. New languages are fun to learn, aren't they? Here's $200.00 to get you started in life. Don't waste it. Love, Mom."

Have the hotel clerk deliver the envelope to his room.

Then, you turn on your heels, take your bags out of the hotel, hail a cab, and get back to the airport. Fly home.

Let Brazil take care of him.

IAAL