I live in NY state, and I have a 19yo stepdaughter who is out of control. She has taken over my wifes apartment and believes that she can do whatever she wants in the house, can come home at any time of the night. Basically come and go as she pleases.
I came into the home when she was 15yo to help her out ONLY after she had called 911 and had the other three children removed as well as herself. Over time, everyone was returned. She was court ordered to see a therapist and have an evaluation, but she didnt do it since she didnt want to when she was 16. Everyone including the police said we could remover her from the apartment at 18. At 18, we she left for two weeks, but came right back, and when we tried to have her removed, she freaked out. She called the police and said we didnt have the right to throw her stuff out and kick her out since it is her legal residence.
I have my own baby now and I fear anytime this girl is around my daughter and I want to know my rights with dealing with this girl. There is nothing to say or do to make her behave.
Please let me know my rights,
TL, NY
I came into the home when she was 15yo to help her out ONLY after she had called 911 and had the other three children removed as well as herself. Over time, everyone was returned. She was court ordered to see a therapist and have an evaluation, but she didnt do it since she didnt want to when she was 16. Everyone including the police said we could remover her from the apartment at 18. At 18, we she left for two weeks, but came right back, and when we tried to have her removed, she freaked out. She called the police and said we didnt have the right to throw her stuff out and kick her out since it is her legal residence.
I have my own baby now and I fear anytime this girl is around my daughter and I want to know my rights with dealing with this girl. There is nothing to say or do to make her behave.
Please let me know my rights,
TL, NY