What is the name of your state? ohio
i know a girl who is 16. i am 19
i would have liked to date her, and vice versa, but because of the age difference that just wasn't possible. we both really care about each other though
we hung out for a little while, but her mom didn't like me and actually told me that we weren't allowed to hang out anymore
even after that i admittedly did see her a couple times, but her mom called me after that and said basically cut it off or else
that was roughly 2 months ago. about a week or two ago on a Saturday night i ran into her at a basketball game and we ended up talking and hanging out for the rest of the game
while there i found out that she had begun cutting again.
when we had been talking and really close she had used to cut the inside of her leg using her fingernails, for many reasons
her mom never really pays attention to her, and she doesn't live with her dad. most of the time she feels like nobody really cares about her at all, and she has a pretty bad self image
she is seeing somebody about this, but for some reason she never made much progress.
while we had been close i had talked to her and managed to make her understand that i really do care about her, and that she was beautiful, i wasn't just saying it to make her feel better
well like i said there were about two months time between than and when i saw her again, during which we didnt have any contact
when i saw her at the game i found out she had been getting worse and worse
she had moved tho cutting on her stomach
and then to small cuts on her wrist
she also had started making herself throw up a few times a day, mostly because she had once again convinced herself that she was fat
the tuesday after the basketball game she called me and asked me if i would come meet her when she got off work, and we could hang out for maybe an hour
i agreed mostly because i was very worried about her and i really wanted to talk to her about it, because she really cares about what i think, and i really care about her
we huhg out for that time and i talked to her and somehow i did get through to her
she agreed once again to stop hurting herself, and she still didnt agree with me, but she once again knew that i thought she was beautiful, and she went from throwing up 3 times a day to not doing it once for an entire week
the problem is that about 10 days after i saw her, through a chain of about 5 people, her mom found out that we had hung out again
her mom has now spoken to the police and is trying to file unruly charges against her own daughter, and is considering filing some kid of charge against me, basically because i helped her daughter disobey her
i did all of this because of how much i care about her and i was worried about her, and now this
what i need to know is where do i stand and is there anything inn particular i could say to the officer investigating that would help me
this whole situation is honestly, in my opinion quite stupid. why you would use legal means against your own daughter in a case like this is completely beyond me. but i really need some help understanding all of this and what i can/should do.
thank you
i know a girl who is 16. i am 19
i would have liked to date her, and vice versa, but because of the age difference that just wasn't possible. we both really care about each other though
we hung out for a little while, but her mom didn't like me and actually told me that we weren't allowed to hang out anymore
even after that i admittedly did see her a couple times, but her mom called me after that and said basically cut it off or else
that was roughly 2 months ago. about a week or two ago on a Saturday night i ran into her at a basketball game and we ended up talking and hanging out for the rest of the game
while there i found out that she had begun cutting again.
when we had been talking and really close she had used to cut the inside of her leg using her fingernails, for many reasons
her mom never really pays attention to her, and she doesn't live with her dad. most of the time she feels like nobody really cares about her at all, and she has a pretty bad self image
she is seeing somebody about this, but for some reason she never made much progress.
while we had been close i had talked to her and managed to make her understand that i really do care about her, and that she was beautiful, i wasn't just saying it to make her feel better
well like i said there were about two months time between than and when i saw her again, during which we didnt have any contact
when i saw her at the game i found out she had been getting worse and worse
she had moved tho cutting on her stomach
and then to small cuts on her wrist
she also had started making herself throw up a few times a day, mostly because she had once again convinced herself that she was fat
the tuesday after the basketball game she called me and asked me if i would come meet her when she got off work, and we could hang out for maybe an hour
i agreed mostly because i was very worried about her and i really wanted to talk to her about it, because she really cares about what i think, and i really care about her
we huhg out for that time and i talked to her and somehow i did get through to her
she agreed once again to stop hurting herself, and she still didnt agree with me, but she once again knew that i thought she was beautiful, and she went from throwing up 3 times a day to not doing it once for an entire week
the problem is that about 10 days after i saw her, through a chain of about 5 people, her mom found out that we had hung out again
her mom has now spoken to the police and is trying to file unruly charges against her own daughter, and is considering filing some kid of charge against me, basically because i helped her daughter disobey her
i did all of this because of how much i care about her and i was worried about her, and now this
what i need to know is where do i stand and is there anything inn particular i could say to the officer investigating that would help me
this whole situation is honestly, in my opinion quite stupid. why you would use legal means against your own daughter in a case like this is completely beyond me. but i really need some help understanding all of this and what i can/should do.
thank you
