What is the name of your state? Arizona
I'm at my wit's end here and really need some help focusing on what to do.
For 2.5 years (since we moved here) I have been trying to get my son's school to stop the bullying in their school. This is an "elementary" school that is K-8 and my son is now in the 7th grade.
I thought I was making progress when the superintendent initiated a "stop bullying now" program but after what happened this past Tuesday, I really need some advice.
My son was in class Tuesday morning, listening to his teacher, drumming his fingers on his desk, when a classmates (who later told people he did this because the drumming "annoyed" him) picked up a mechanical pencil and stabbed my son in the hand.
The principal is refusing to punish the child with anything more than a lunch detention. This principal has a long history of being lenient towards the students and the majority of the parents complain about it. There is a joke about the principal amongst the parents that she is a Stepford Wife, that no matter what is happening, ("Mrs. Doe, one of the students just severed an arm on the playground.") she will plant a large smile on her face and say, "Uh-huh, I'll take care of it for you!"
When my son first got to this school he was an A, B student and is now in danger of failing the 7th grade. Getting him to school is a struggle because he hates it there so much. We've had him in and out of counseling with him getting ready to start up again due to his empathizing with his attacker, not wanting me to go the Sheriff about this because he didn't want the kid to "get in too much trouble." I did go to the Sheriff and he explained to me that this was a common response when someone has been so beaten up, both emotionally and physically, for so long they start to believe they somehow deserve it.
I am not sending my son to school today because his attacker is still there. He went yesterday but that was due to my belief something would be done to his attacker beyond a slap on the wrist. This was not done and now I have no idea how to proceed. The Superintendent is on vacation until late next week and the "acting" superintendent tells me she doesn't believe this rises to the level of a crime. (The Sheriff felt differently, thank goodness, and I DID file charges against the brat that stabbed my son) so I know I'll get no joy from her.
Please, lend me your advice as to how to proceed here and still make sure my son doesn't fail the 7th grade due to the school's negligence.
I'm at my wit's end here and really need some help focusing on what to do.
For 2.5 years (since we moved here) I have been trying to get my son's school to stop the bullying in their school. This is an "elementary" school that is K-8 and my son is now in the 7th grade.
I thought I was making progress when the superintendent initiated a "stop bullying now" program but after what happened this past Tuesday, I really need some advice.
My son was in class Tuesday morning, listening to his teacher, drumming his fingers on his desk, when a classmates (who later told people he did this because the drumming "annoyed" him) picked up a mechanical pencil and stabbed my son in the hand.
The principal is refusing to punish the child with anything more than a lunch detention. This principal has a long history of being lenient towards the students and the majority of the parents complain about it. There is a joke about the principal amongst the parents that she is a Stepford Wife, that no matter what is happening, ("Mrs. Doe, one of the students just severed an arm on the playground.") she will plant a large smile on her face and say, "Uh-huh, I'll take care of it for you!"
When my son first got to this school he was an A, B student and is now in danger of failing the 7th grade. Getting him to school is a struggle because he hates it there so much. We've had him in and out of counseling with him getting ready to start up again due to his empathizing with his attacker, not wanting me to go the Sheriff about this because he didn't want the kid to "get in too much trouble." I did go to the Sheriff and he explained to me that this was a common response when someone has been so beaten up, both emotionally and physically, for so long they start to believe they somehow deserve it.
I am not sending my son to school today because his attacker is still there. He went yesterday but that was due to my belief something would be done to his attacker beyond a slap on the wrist. This was not done and now I have no idea how to proceed. The Superintendent is on vacation until late next week and the "acting" superintendent tells me she doesn't believe this rises to the level of a crime. (The Sheriff felt differently, thank goodness, and I DID file charges against the brat that stabbed my son) so I know I'll get no joy from her.
Please, lend me your advice as to how to proceed here and still make sure my son doesn't fail the 7th grade due to the school's negligence.