Jen needs help
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? IL
I need to know what my rights are. I let my boyfriend move into my new house that I am renting. I am the lease holder and he is listed with my kids as people not on the lease but allowed to be there. He has bi polar and takes heavy meds for it and has been drinking alcohol heavily. This sets him inot 2 - 3 day episdoes where he texts, emails and calls me non stop saying horrible things about me and to me and calls the police on me repeatedly for nothing. They arrive and see that he is messed up and not making sense and ask me what I want them to do with him. But they can't do anything unless he is physically threatening to me or threatening suicide and admits it to them. My kids had to be up until 3 am last night because he called the police back 3 times and the kids had to give statements. I can't live like this anymore. We have no written agreement but we have been living there for 3 weeks and he has had his mail sent there. What rights do I have and what rights does he have? Can I throw him out? Can I throw his stuff out? Thanks for your help. I am afraid to go home.
I need to know what my rights are. I let my boyfriend move into my new house that I am renting. I am the lease holder and he is listed with my kids as people not on the lease but allowed to be there. He has bi polar and takes heavy meds for it and has been drinking alcohol heavily. This sets him inot 2 - 3 day episdoes where he texts, emails and calls me non stop saying horrible things about me and to me and calls the police on me repeatedly for nothing. They arrive and see that he is messed up and not making sense and ask me what I want them to do with him. But they can't do anything unless he is physically threatening to me or threatening suicide and admits it to them. My kids had to be up until 3 am last night because he called the police back 3 times and the kids had to give statements. I can't live like this anymore. We have no written agreement but we have been living there for 3 weeks and he has had his mail sent there. What rights do I have and what rights does he have? Can I throw him out? Can I throw his stuff out? Thanks for your help. I am afraid to go home.