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I hope this isn't too long but there are details I need to include. First off, I broke up with my ex last September (2010). The problem is he is verybally, emotionally and in the past physically abusive. He is the type to have the right threats that stop you in your tracks and the threats aren't threats to the police. He is very clever in how he words everything.
He went to jail in April for breaking into my mother's home who live right next door, all while I had a restraining order on him. The police picked him up and he was gone for 6 months.
The day he got out, I wasn't home but when I walked into my house, he was there.
He can be very loud and mean and even to my children, one of which is his, which makes this even harder.
Just to add to the problems, he knows all the "wrong" people which also makes me fear to call the police. If I didn't have children, I don't know if I would care as much but I fear something happening because I pissed him off.
He sleep on the floor in an extra room because he tells me he has nowhere to go. If I don't open the door at night he will bang on it until someone does.
He has broken in before and the cops told me they can't do anything because he broke into his own home....he get mail here. (Sound familiar ladies?)
I have repeatedly asked him to leave and all I get is he will have to sleep under a bridge and I never cared. I can't take anymore and do not know what to do. Even if he is forced to leave, he'll come around at night when nobody can see him.
He lives here like he pays for it and I cannot afford to take care of another person in my home.
He scared the hell out of my children before he was locked up and I'm afraid it's going to happen again. He's already showing signs of anger and that same evil look he gets because I "didn't answer my phone when he called".
I need to get him out without being the bad guy so nothing falls back on me. I'm stuck here and don't know what to do.
Fear for my children with him here and fear for them if I make him leave.
I hope this isn't too long but there are details I need to include. First off, I broke up with my ex last September (2010). The problem is he is verybally, emotionally and in the past physically abusive. He is the type to have the right threats that stop you in your tracks and the threats aren't threats to the police. He is very clever in how he words everything.
He went to jail in April for breaking into my mother's home who live right next door, all while I had a restraining order on him. The police picked him up and he was gone for 6 months.
The day he got out, I wasn't home but when I walked into my house, he was there.
He can be very loud and mean and even to my children, one of which is his, which makes this even harder.
Just to add to the problems, he knows all the "wrong" people which also makes me fear to call the police. If I didn't have children, I don't know if I would care as much but I fear something happening because I pissed him off.
He sleep on the floor in an extra room because he tells me he has nowhere to go. If I don't open the door at night he will bang on it until someone does.
He has broken in before and the cops told me they can't do anything because he broke into his own home....he get mail here. (Sound familiar ladies?)
I have repeatedly asked him to leave and all I get is he will have to sleep under a bridge and I never cared. I can't take anymore and do not know what to do. Even if he is forced to leave, he'll come around at night when nobody can see him.
He lives here like he pays for it and I cannot afford to take care of another person in my home.
He scared the hell out of my children before he was locked up and I'm afraid it's going to happen again. He's already showing signs of anger and that same evil look he gets because I "didn't answer my phone when he called".
I need to get him out without being the bad guy so nothing falls back on me. I'm stuck here and don't know what to do.
Fear for my children with him here and fear for them if I make him leave.
