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    terrorcat1 is offline Junior Member
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    EX boyfriend won't move out

    I live in a mobile home in NJ. My ex boyfriend won't move out. His name isn't on the title of the house or lease. The local police say it is his legal address because his mail comes here. They can't make him leave. It isn't technically and eviction because he isn't my tennant. Why can't I make him leave?
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    Change the locks...he is a guest and you need to UNINVITE him to live there.
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    Quote Originally Posted by terrorcat1 View Post
    I live in a mobile home in NJ. My ex boyfriend won't move out. His name isn't on the title of the house or lease. The local police say it is his legal address because his mail comes here. They can't make him leave. It isn't technically and eviction because he isn't my tennant. Why can't I make him leave?
    Yes he is , you invited him in .

    Evict him according to law .
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    If you can't find the laws for eviction for your state, you might consider getting an attorney to handle the eviction paperwork.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cvillecpm View Post
    Change the locks...he is a guest and you need to UNINVITE him to live there.
    **A: I do not agree. The boyfriend is a month to month tenant on an oral lease. Therefore written notice must be given to terminate such lease under the provisions of the NJ landlord tenant law. The police were correct as this is a civil matter.
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    Thanks for your suggestions. I am disabled and live on a fixed income. I have a legal aid attorney working on it but it's taking a very long time. In the mean time he is abusive. I'm trying to get him out quicker. Thanks again
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    Quote Originally Posted by terrorcat1 View Post
    In the mean time he is abusive.
    If he is abusive then contact a woman's shelter.

    [url=http://www.sboard.org/SHELTERS/NJ.HTM]Domestic Violence Shelters[/url]

    They can assist you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by terrorcat1 View Post
    Thanks for your suggestions. I am disabled and live on a fixed income. I have a legal aid attorney working on it but it's taking a very long time. In the mean time he is abusive. I'm trying to get him out quicker. Thanks again
    **A: the legal aid attorney is abusive?
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    In the meantime , if he gets physically abusive or is damaging property there , call the Law .

    Your legal Aid Attorney should advise you also .
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    Quote Originally Posted by BL View Post
    In the meantime , if he gets physically abusive or is damaging property there , call the Law .

    Your legal Aid Attorney should advise you also .
    **A: yes by all means, call the police.

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