Buffalo, New York
Overly detailed background:
My roommate was originally only supposed to be a 2 month renter until he was able to find his own place.
The only rules I had were:
1. Clean up after yourself.
2. Pay bills and rent on time.
3. Respect each others personal space and sleep schedules.
4. What happens in this apartment, stays in this apartment.
Out of laziness on both our parts, he never looked for another place, and I never asked him to leave. 2 years later, he has grown increasingly irresponsible and disrespectful. He began coming in at 5am drunk and loud and shouting to himself. He smoked in the house. He would discuss my personal life with very intimate detail to persons who were common to both of us. He became inconsistent with paying his bills, and his personal hygiene was, well, you've been to the zoo... imagine the smell in the elephant house. Seriously.
So, in January of this year myself and my boyfriend discussed with him the possibility that we would want to live together. In March we told him it would be April, but if he wasn't ready we didn't mind waiting another month of two for him to save money. May 1st he said he'd be moving June 1st. May 29th it was June 15th. Then it was Sunday June 28th. He asked my boyfriend if he could help him move. My BF took the day off of work. Saturday night before, I ask the RM if he's excited for his new place. He says, oh, yeah, I'm not leaving till July 5th. I was outraged. It was a very specific date that he knew I'd be out of town, and he never told my BF, who is now missing work for this, that his help wasn't needed. He never even said thanks anyway.
We came home Sunday July 5th to find that he has in fact moved out. He left his room a discusting filthy mess. He left garbage. He didn't clean. It reeked of cheap cigarettes and dollar store air freshner. I had to BLEACH the walls with a floor mop to get the filth off. Then I had to prime and paint 2coats of paint, at my expense.
He left a note that he would be back yesterday (July 9th) to pick up the boxes he left in our hallway (blocking traffic) and the items he left in the attic. He hasn't showed or even called. He still has keys. I called him last night at 8pm and left a message asking when he was coming and to please call first, as he no longer lives here and we want to be present while he removes things from the house. He never called back, and it's been 24 hours.
He still owes June's rent, electric, and gas. (It's now July 10th!)
What do I do with his stuff, and is it reasonable to ask my landlord to change the locks. He has no personal property in the living space, he could access the attic from the landlord's entrance instead of mine. When can I throw it out?
Thank you. And, yes, I am just glad he's gone.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
Overly detailed background:
My roommate was originally only supposed to be a 2 month renter until he was able to find his own place.
The only rules I had were:
1. Clean up after yourself.
2. Pay bills and rent on time.
3. Respect each others personal space and sleep schedules.
4. What happens in this apartment, stays in this apartment.
Out of laziness on both our parts, he never looked for another place, and I never asked him to leave. 2 years later, he has grown increasingly irresponsible and disrespectful. He began coming in at 5am drunk and loud and shouting to himself. He smoked in the house. He would discuss my personal life with very intimate detail to persons who were common to both of us. He became inconsistent with paying his bills, and his personal hygiene was, well, you've been to the zoo... imagine the smell in the elephant house. Seriously.
So, in January of this year myself and my boyfriend discussed with him the possibility that we would want to live together. In March we told him it would be April, but if he wasn't ready we didn't mind waiting another month of two for him to save money. May 1st he said he'd be moving June 1st. May 29th it was June 15th. Then it was Sunday June 28th. He asked my boyfriend if he could help him move. My BF took the day off of work. Saturday night before, I ask the RM if he's excited for his new place. He says, oh, yeah, I'm not leaving till July 5th. I was outraged. It was a very specific date that he knew I'd be out of town, and he never told my BF, who is now missing work for this, that his help wasn't needed. He never even said thanks anyway.
We came home Sunday July 5th to find that he has in fact moved out. He left his room a discusting filthy mess. He left garbage. He didn't clean. It reeked of cheap cigarettes and dollar store air freshner. I had to BLEACH the walls with a floor mop to get the filth off. Then I had to prime and paint 2coats of paint, at my expense.
He left a note that he would be back yesterday (July 9th) to pick up the boxes he left in our hallway (blocking traffic) and the items he left in the attic. He hasn't showed or even called. He still has keys. I called him last night at 8pm and left a message asking when he was coming and to please call first, as he no longer lives here and we want to be present while he removes things from the house. He never called back, and it's been 24 hours.
He still owes June's rent, electric, and gas. (It's now July 10th!)
What do I do with his stuff, and is it reasonable to ask my landlord to change the locks. He has no personal property in the living space, he could access the attic from the landlord's entrance instead of mine. When can I throw it out?
Thank you. And, yes, I am just glad he's gone.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?