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#16
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| I spoke with another attorney, and he thinks it will be up to BK judge as to whether or not the court order stays. He believes I have received the paperwork because I am a title holder on the mortgage. He is requesting a copy of the BK from the trustee, but I haven't heard back yet. I guess I will call the trustee again. |
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#17
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| another question- One member here mentioned that I may be able to go to the next hearing (June 16th) pro se. The judge said she was going to rule on the following issues at our next hearing: holiday visitation with our son the van whether to give joint custody of our son back to my ex a possible award of attorney's fees (which probably doesn't matter bc of ex's BK) I received a letter yesterday from my attorney stating that he would no longer represent me if I did not have another $3750.00 in his hands by June 10th. What would happen if I show up to court without an attorney for this hearing? |
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#18
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| You're attorney may have given you a deadline of June 10 to pay him, so that if you choose to not pay him, he will have time to file a motion to be dismissed as your attorney prior to the hearing on the 16th. Either way you will still owe him the $3,750. Odds are if he has to sue you for it he will get it... with interest. If the matters the judge will rule upon at this next hearing are very important to you, and in the context of what you already owe your attorney, it seems like it would be cheap insurance to keep your attorney for at least this next hearing. |
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#19
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The state bar is the governing agency. |
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#20
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| After calling around only to find out that other attorneys want huge retainers, I have decided to try to work with my attorney on my bill as a way to keep him around for our next hearing. I have drafted a letter and I want feedback from you guys-do I need to add or delete anything? I did not mention this in the letter, but I will add it if you think I should-I would be satisfied to give him the 3750 if he would agree to finish up my case with no additional charges. Nevertheless, here is what I have: I received your letter regarding the fees and intent to withdrawal from my case if they are not paid. I would like to extend a thank you for what you have attempted to do to help me. While I realize that XXXX’s lack of cooperation has made this case lengthy and difficult, I hope that you agree that I have done everything I possibly can to be fair, compliant, and honest. According to my records, I have paid you $4600.00. Your bill asks for another $3750.00, totaling $8350.00. As I look through the child support record, I will have received $5640 by the time of our next hearing on June 16th. Aside from the child support, there is an order for XXXX’s % of the medical bills and extracurriculars, but he has not paid me for those items as of today. I have spoken with a few others in your profession and they adamantly feel that none of the property division issues will hold up in family court, as they never should have been filed there because family court lacks subject matter jurisdiction (as XXXX’s attorney attests). For that reason, I ask that you audit your records to exclude fees that were charged on my bill concerning property issues. Ideally, you and I could agree on an amount that seems less excessive for a mere child support order. I want you to continue to represent me at the next hearing, as I am confident that you know my case well enough to resolve the few remaining issues. Please let me know how we can work toward a resolution. Thanks again, |
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#21
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If the question of jurisdiction was obvious, the judge would not have made this ruling, and your ex’s attorney at the time should have raised an objection long before the ruling, when motions for mortgage payments were first made. In many cases a failure to object in a timely manner constitutes a waiver of the complaint, which could happen in this case. Despite what your ex's attorney attests to, this matter has yet to be resolved. The ruling could still stand. Quote:
While you certainly have the right to deal with your attorney however you wish, if you get this aggressive with him before your next hearing the odds are pretty darn good you will be unrepresented at your next hearing. And you will still owe the balance due. If you are prepared for this contingency, then that is ok. Last edited by Ronin; 05-21-2009 at 09:08 PM. |
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#22
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| OK, so I will pay him, but I do not want any more charges. I am still responsible to save this mortgage. I have bills coming out the wazoo... Is it fair that I ask him to do the next hearing for free? I would like to hear from more than one person, so I know I am making the right decision. I know that he will keep this case going forever if I allow it. I have told him twice already that I did not want to go back to court, and to finalize everything at that hearing, but we always have to come back. It seems these hearings are very unproductive. |
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#23
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| Also, the attorney I spoke with is a BK trustee in the area. He thinks it will be up to the BK judge whether I can try to collect from my ex. |
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#24
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__________________ Parents should remember three things: Love your kids more than you hate your ex (or soon to be ex) & when you have children the relationship with the other parent is until death parts you & how you treat your children determines what type of nursing home you end up in. Nothing stated by me should be taken as giving you legal advice or forming an attorney/client relationship. The devil is in the details after all. Licensed to practice law in Ohio and a Guardian Ad Litem for children |
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#25
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| Yep. I can agree with that.
__________________ Parents should remember three things: Love your kids more than you hate your ex (or soon to be ex) & when you have children the relationship with the other parent is until death parts you & how you treat your children determines what type of nursing home you end up in. Nothing stated by me should be taken as giving you legal advice or forming an attorney/client relationship. The devil is in the details after all. Licensed to practice law in Ohio and a Guardian Ad Litem for children |
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#26
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| Ohiogal-you are one of the people who said his fees were excessive, and you recommended I find a new attorney altogether. As this is not cost productive at this point, I am surprised that you don't understand what I am trying to accomplish. I don't want to file a complaint with the state bar. Instead, I am trying to negotiate with my attorney. How can I accomplish this? |
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#27
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| You give him a written proposal. He either accepts or declines. That's all you can do. (unless you want to hire another atty to negotiate for you...) |
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