sharpie259
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? CT
At one point, my ex-husband was court ordered not to transport my daughter by car because of alcohol issues.
After several months, we agreed that if he was evaluated for alcohol abuse, based on what the evaluator said, he might be able to transport our daughter.
The evaluation was done - no blood or urine tests - only a series of questions posed to my ex-husband - to which he replied very dishonestly, stating he on ly had a beer on the weekends, etc).
I recently found out that the guardian ad-lietum in the case, who always seemed unusually sympathetic to my ex-husband, told the substance abuse evaluator not to contact me for information- she wanted the evaluation to be only from my ex-husband's perspective. So, the evaluator relied only on these questions to my ex-husband in order to formulate her opinion. Obviously, he lied - so, the evaluator said he did not have a drinking problem.
A few months later he was arrested (on a weeknight) for a DUI.
Thank God, my daughter was not in the car with him.
Question: Is what the guardian did (with regard to skewing the evaluatiuon) ethical? I thought she was supposed to have the child's best interest in mind.
If this is not an ethical practice - who should I contact? The American Bar Association?
Thanks for any assistance.
At one point, my ex-husband was court ordered not to transport my daughter by car because of alcohol issues.
After several months, we agreed that if he was evaluated for alcohol abuse, based on what the evaluator said, he might be able to transport our daughter.
The evaluation was done - no blood or urine tests - only a series of questions posed to my ex-husband - to which he replied very dishonestly, stating he on ly had a beer on the weekends, etc).
I recently found out that the guardian ad-lietum in the case, who always seemed unusually sympathetic to my ex-husband, told the substance abuse evaluator not to contact me for information- she wanted the evaluation to be only from my ex-husband's perspective. So, the evaluator relied only on these questions to my ex-husband in order to formulate her opinion. Obviously, he lied - so, the evaluator said he did not have a drinking problem.
A few months later he was arrested (on a weeknight) for a DUI.
Thank God, my daughter was not in the car with him.
Question: Is what the guardian did (with regard to skewing the evaluatiuon) ethical? I thought she was supposed to have the child's best interest in mind.
If this is not an ethical practice - who should I contact? The American Bar Association?
Thanks for any assistance.