What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Tennessee
MY EX FILED "PHONE HARRASSMENT CHARGES" ON ME, MAY 16.
THE TEXT (AND I QUOTE) IS AS FOLLOWS:
{$4,564.40 garnish} $4,744.24 + 1750 - 600 - 1000 = $4,894.24
*the first amount refers to the money still owed by him per our divorce in 2004 for the hospital unpaid bills from 2000-03. He is once again paying $50 a month on them. The next is the amount of the cashiers check I paid on a debt he was orded to pay. He knew I had to pay it to be able to refinance my house. The third is my lawyer and mediation cost. Then the deductions are him wanting half of the original divorce lawyer cost from 2004 which he paid (we had the same lawyer and nothing was ever said about me paying, but the papers do read that we split the cost for this 2004 amount). The last is what he says the dealer offered for the '98 F150 supercab as trade in on the car he was required to buy for me per our divorce, so he kept it. The trade in was ordered in the divorce papers. I was not present when he bought the '03 taurus for me which he apparently paid $13,200 for instead of the $10k as ordered. I have a copy of the note he has with the Goodyear credit union stating he financed 13k.
I remarried in 2006. He tried to say my new husband should take over the payments then. I informed him that he would have to take legal action but I would only counter with the 5k I paid off of his debt. In June 2007, my 23 yr old daughter moved in with me after jumping a bus to run from her husband. She was you atypical college girl that got pregnant and married the guy. My ex became aware of me giving the Taurus he bought as part of our divorce to my daughter to drive. He began telling her to take over payments, despite her not having a job until recently. He ended up filing in civil court, breach of contract against me, stating that I was to pay the final 3k of the car payments. My lawyer had the case moved to divorce court and filed contempt against him for the outstanding money he never paid. The case went to mediation the beginning of this month. We could not comprimise.
Now you have the history... now my update and serious danger!
When I went to the court house in my previous county of residence (4 years ago) for the court date and time on the paper served, the deputy at the metal detector said the judge was in session at the county jail. Criminal matters were held there. My attorney was unaware of this as well. I made sure she was there with me, as well as my husband.
The judge called me first. I tried to speak, but he informed me this was only an arrainment to set a court date for June 4th. He then instructed me to go with the officer to be "booked". I began crying immediately.
I am soon to be 50 years old, graying, upswept hair and reading glasses, overweight, professional worker, Girl Scout leader, used to be Sunday School teacher!
They left me in this windowed room until I quit crying. I looked up and saw a sign above me saying "absolutely no talking" and assumed my heart wrenching tears of humiliation could be heard by all.
When the officers took me out of the room, I filled out very detailed paperwork. I had to put not only full name, address, height, weight, eyes, etc, but social security number, place of birth, length of hair, scars and list the tiny tatto I privately got when I turned 40. The officers thought me having a tattoo on my butt was hysterical.
I was finger printed and mug shot taken.
Apparently there was no bond and I was released once processed.
In my humiliation and anger, I went back inside and reported my ex husband's girlfriend for the harrassment I endured from Aug 2007 to July 2008, then I went to the court house and filed harrassment on her.
Next I will go tomorrow to the county in Kentucky where my ex took the door off my shed last summer and file criminal tresspass plus break and entry.
I was booked without a conviction!
Just based on my ex saying I harrassed him.
That is exactly the text he claims I sent in harrassment listed above. He and I spoke on the phone when I got the letter from my attorney about mediation without incident. Verizon phone so I have a date, time and length of call to provide as evidence!
He was so spitting, cussing, tire squawling mad when he was told by the mediation lawyer that he owes me the money because it is listed in our divorce for him to pay not me; he has no right to any property still in my possession after the date he signed the divorce papers because it clearly states we have settled all division of property; it was not legal for him to get things from my shed regardless of his not signing a quit claim as ordered per our divorce papers!
So he is trying to get me in any way possible. My lawyer had informed me just before the weekend that he was still ranting and raving about wanting his tiller. He wanted the amount I would settle for of what he owes. I text it to him and he didn't like it.
Now I have to worry about being a federal employee as well as a pharmacy employee with an arrest on my record now!
Man, my emotions have been rollercoasting between crying and anger all weekend. So much for my Memorial Day Holiday weekend!
I have edited all my old blogs on myspace to say my ex instead of his name. Herc has gone into work second shift this week and it is raining outside. I will be online for hours, I am sure.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
MY EX FILED "PHONE HARRASSMENT CHARGES" ON ME, MAY 16.
THE TEXT (AND I QUOTE) IS AS FOLLOWS:
{$4,564.40 garnish} $4,744.24 + 1750 - 600 - 1000 = $4,894.24
*the first amount refers to the money still owed by him per our divorce in 2004 for the hospital unpaid bills from 2000-03. He is once again paying $50 a month on them. The next is the amount of the cashiers check I paid on a debt he was orded to pay. He knew I had to pay it to be able to refinance my house. The third is my lawyer and mediation cost. Then the deductions are him wanting half of the original divorce lawyer cost from 2004 which he paid (we had the same lawyer and nothing was ever said about me paying, but the papers do read that we split the cost for this 2004 amount). The last is what he says the dealer offered for the '98 F150 supercab as trade in on the car he was required to buy for me per our divorce, so he kept it. The trade in was ordered in the divorce papers. I was not present when he bought the '03 taurus for me which he apparently paid $13,200 for instead of the $10k as ordered. I have a copy of the note he has with the Goodyear credit union stating he financed 13k.
I remarried in 2006. He tried to say my new husband should take over the payments then. I informed him that he would have to take legal action but I would only counter with the 5k I paid off of his debt. In June 2007, my 23 yr old daughter moved in with me after jumping a bus to run from her husband. She was you atypical college girl that got pregnant and married the guy. My ex became aware of me giving the Taurus he bought as part of our divorce to my daughter to drive. He began telling her to take over payments, despite her not having a job until recently. He ended up filing in civil court, breach of contract against me, stating that I was to pay the final 3k of the car payments. My lawyer had the case moved to divorce court and filed contempt against him for the outstanding money he never paid. The case went to mediation the beginning of this month. We could not comprimise.
Now you have the history... now my update and serious danger!
When I went to the court house in my previous county of residence (4 years ago) for the court date and time on the paper served, the deputy at the metal detector said the judge was in session at the county jail. Criminal matters were held there. My attorney was unaware of this as well. I made sure she was there with me, as well as my husband.
The judge called me first. I tried to speak, but he informed me this was only an arrainment to set a court date for June 4th. He then instructed me to go with the officer to be "booked". I began crying immediately.
I am soon to be 50 years old, graying, upswept hair and reading glasses, overweight, professional worker, Girl Scout leader, used to be Sunday School teacher!
They left me in this windowed room until I quit crying. I looked up and saw a sign above me saying "absolutely no talking" and assumed my heart wrenching tears of humiliation could be heard by all.
When the officers took me out of the room, I filled out very detailed paperwork. I had to put not only full name, address, height, weight, eyes, etc, but social security number, place of birth, length of hair, scars and list the tiny tatto I privately got when I turned 40. The officers thought me having a tattoo on my butt was hysterical.
I was finger printed and mug shot taken.
Apparently there was no bond and I was released once processed.
In my humiliation and anger, I went back inside and reported my ex husband's girlfriend for the harrassment I endured from Aug 2007 to July 2008, then I went to the court house and filed harrassment on her.
Next I will go tomorrow to the county in Kentucky where my ex took the door off my shed last summer and file criminal tresspass plus break and entry.
I was booked without a conviction!
Just based on my ex saying I harrassed him.
That is exactly the text he claims I sent in harrassment listed above. He and I spoke on the phone when I got the letter from my attorney about mediation without incident. Verizon phone so I have a date, time and length of call to provide as evidence!
He was so spitting, cussing, tire squawling mad when he was told by the mediation lawyer that he owes me the money because it is listed in our divorce for him to pay not me; he has no right to any property still in my possession after the date he signed the divorce papers because it clearly states we have settled all division of property; it was not legal for him to get things from my shed regardless of his not signing a quit claim as ordered per our divorce papers!
So he is trying to get me in any way possible. My lawyer had informed me just before the weekend that he was still ranting and raving about wanting his tiller. He wanted the amount I would settle for of what he owes. I text it to him and he didn't like it.
Now I have to worry about being a federal employee as well as a pharmacy employee with an arrest on my record now!
Man, my emotions have been rollercoasting between crying and anger all weekend. So much for my Memorial Day Holiday weekend!
I have edited all my old blogs on myspace to say my ex instead of his name. Herc has gone into work second shift this week and it is raining outside. I will be online for hours, I am sure.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?