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My ex husband and I used to go to a church close to where we lived. I stopped going around Nov 2009. He continued to go. We were having marital problems and truthfully I was just not interested in that church. He continued to go. In March of last year, we separated. We both had been dating other people while still sharing the same house for a short time. We knew the marriage was done for some time before. We both began living with other people. I began receiving emails from one of the pastors of this church shortly after moving out telling me I was doing the wrong things and I needed to repent. I shouldn't be living with someone, blah, blah, blah...I told him he needed to make sure he talked with someone who actually went to his church. I do not go there anymore and do not consider myself a member. These emails continued and intensified (especially as my ex began telling him things that were not true). He (the pastor) brought my story before a few other men (again let me remind you I have not been to this church in over a year). They started sending me certified mail telling me they were having meetings to decide my fate at the church which again I reminded them I would not ever be attending there again and please take me off their church rolls. Do not contact me again or I will forced to contact the local police. I just found out they sent out a letter to 400 people or more stating that I had been excommunicating me because I had not repented of my sins and listed specific scriptures. On top of this, I also found out that my ex sent a letter and withdrew his membership before the congregation found out that he had "sinned" like me and then married and divorced. As well, the pastor has been telling people that the church had "extensively with _________ and ___________ on their marriage over the years." Obviously, indicating that my "sins" were to blame. Is this libel or slander or defamation of character? Thanks for any help on this.
Overwhelmed,
mswaney
My ex husband and I used to go to a church close to where we lived. I stopped going around Nov 2009. He continued to go. We were having marital problems and truthfully I was just not interested in that church. He continued to go. In March of last year, we separated. We both had been dating other people while still sharing the same house for a short time. We knew the marriage was done for some time before. We both began living with other people. I began receiving emails from one of the pastors of this church shortly after moving out telling me I was doing the wrong things and I needed to repent. I shouldn't be living with someone, blah, blah, blah...I told him he needed to make sure he talked with someone who actually went to his church. I do not go there anymore and do not consider myself a member. These emails continued and intensified (especially as my ex began telling him things that were not true). He (the pastor) brought my story before a few other men (again let me remind you I have not been to this church in over a year). They started sending me certified mail telling me they were having meetings to decide my fate at the church which again I reminded them I would not ever be attending there again and please take me off their church rolls. Do not contact me again or I will forced to contact the local police. I just found out they sent out a letter to 400 people or more stating that I had been excommunicating me because I had not repented of my sins and listed specific scriptures. On top of this, I also found out that my ex sent a letter and withdrew his membership before the congregation found out that he had "sinned" like me and then married and divorced. As well, the pastor has been telling people that the church had "extensively with _________ and ___________ on their marriage over the years." Obviously, indicating that my "sins" were to blame. Is this libel or slander or defamation of character? Thanks for any help on this.
Overwhelmed,
mswaney