The OP will have us believe that all of this happened in Maine, but now he's in New Hampshire. Strange how that tidbit only comes up now...
Oh. Yes. It appears I am reading a lot of the postings wrong.
If firebird worked as a baseball coach in
Maine and not in New Hampshire (as was presumed by his state name in his previous thread), and if firebird lived in and was defamed in Maine and hired an attorney in Maine to sue the person who libeled him on Facebook (and was already in the process of depositions in June and talking mediation and settlement), Maine's laws on defamation would apply (unless his accuser did not live in Maine and the suit was filed somewhere else entirely).
I would certainly like to hear what exactly is going on with the state name changes. If firebird already has an attorney assisting him, however, I don't mind providing relevant case law but I will not second-guess anything his attorney is or is not doing with his case.