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myjojo
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What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? Iowa
I split up with my ex-boyfriend of 5 years (we lived together, in my home for most of the 5 years), about one year ago. He now lives directly behind me with his new girlfriend. I have just recentl;y (within the last month) found out he has told his new girlfriend, along with dozens of other people, including his immediate family members, that I stole $1,000 from his (now deceased) father, that I stole his (my exes) credit card and charged thousands of dollars on it & that I am doing drugs.
In regards to the $1,000 I supposidly stole from his father; I BORROWED $1,000 from his father which was given to me in the form of a personal check written by his father. So the check, to me, is my proof showing it was not stolen. I have no copy of this check and since his father has passed away, I have no way of getting a copy of it. His Dad told him after we split up, that I had borrowed the money, once he died, my ex turned the story into me stealing it.
In regards to stealing his credit card and charging thousands of dollars; simply not true, I never had possesion of his credit card (which he only had two at the time we were together, 1 credit card with a limit of $800.00, the other I believe was $500.00). He authorized me to sign him up for one of those credit cards, online, in his name only, which he now denies. He told me 3 weeks ago, that my part of that bill was $200.00 for misc items I was ALLOWED to purchase online, I accepted that and paid the $200.00 (he has paid nothing on it) which I have my cancelled check for. But now he claims he never authorized me to sign up for this card.
In regards to me using drugs; again simply untrue & just a vicious rumor to start to make me look bad.
What can I do about this? Some people have chosen to believe him & won't speak to me, I have people coming into my place of employment telling me these rumors he's spreading, and I don't want that affecting my job.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
I split up with my ex-boyfriend of 5 years (we lived together, in my home for most of the 5 years), about one year ago. He now lives directly behind me with his new girlfriend. I have just recentl;y (within the last month) found out he has told his new girlfriend, along with dozens of other people, including his immediate family members, that I stole $1,000 from his (now deceased) father, that I stole his (my exes) credit card and charged thousands of dollars on it & that I am doing drugs.
In regards to the $1,000 I supposidly stole from his father; I BORROWED $1,000 from his father which was given to me in the form of a personal check written by his father. So the check, to me, is my proof showing it was not stolen. I have no copy of this check and since his father has passed away, I have no way of getting a copy of it. His Dad told him after we split up, that I had borrowed the money, once he died, my ex turned the story into me stealing it.
In regards to stealing his credit card and charging thousands of dollars; simply not true, I never had possesion of his credit card (which he only had two at the time we were together, 1 credit card with a limit of $800.00, the other I believe was $500.00). He authorized me to sign him up for one of those credit cards, online, in his name only, which he now denies. He told me 3 weeks ago, that my part of that bill was $200.00 for misc items I was ALLOWED to purchase online, I accepted that and paid the $200.00 (he has paid nothing on it) which I have my cancelled check for. But now he claims he never authorized me to sign up for this card.
In regards to me using drugs; again simply untrue & just a vicious rumor to start to make me look bad.
What can I do about this? Some people have chosen to believe him & won't speak to me, I have people coming into my place of employment telling me these rumors he's spreading, and I don't want that affecting my job.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.