Changing his number
It has been going on 4 days now and no action has been taken. My fiance is changing his telephone number and is having anxiety attacks each day (which he has been prone to for years already). I'm really becoming scared for his mental health. He is only 26 years old and has been the only person in a fairly large family who has been willing to help his father. Few others are even willing to speak to the man. I don't want to over burden with personal info, but flat out, the father should have been deemed incompetent years ago. He is a a danger to himself without daily supervision, and he just got his license back which scares me because due to his disabilities and trouble with alcohol and even the medications he has to take, i fear for the safety of others on the road. I'm not overly worried about the threats, because the voicemails my fiance has received are actually leaning more towards blackmail than accusations of theft. Neither party has actually kept records of atm transactions and in our small city his father has more legal tarnish on his name than my fiance who has no criminal history what so ever. I am at my wits end with the situation. How do we go about saving this man from himself? We do know that right now he has another alcoholic staying with him who really has stolen money and medication from him before. I don't have a personal fondness for my fiance's father, but I have never even tried to influence the situation in any other way than patting him on the back and telling him I will be here for him no matter what. Now, I just want the entire situation to come to some sort of peak so that we can get back to normal.