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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NJ
First, I would like to apologize for the long post. I purchased two trees from a lady from South Carolina through her website. The trees were supposed to have several different variety of fruits grafted onto them. The trees that I received did not appear to be grafted, although I was not 100% positive of this fact. I suspected that I was scammed but did not accuse the seller of such because the seller has numerous positive feedbacks from others. After I returned the trees for a partial refund, I left a neutral feedback on a well-known gardening forum. The seller responded to my comments and the discourse resulted in me changing the rating to negative. Subsequently, the seller sent me an email threatening a libel and defamation lawsuit if I did not retract my comments. The following is what transpired on the forum:
Posted on March 18, 2011, updated March 23, 2011
I just ordered two 5-in-1 fruit trees. The trees were shipped promptly. Both trees looked healthy and had good strong roots. Unfortunately, I could not discern any indication that the trees were grafted.
One of the tree was taped so I could not tell if the grafts were underneath. The other tree was a 2' straight whip with a smooth outer bark from top to bottom of uniform color; absolutely no sign of any graft. I am not an expert concerning bud grafts, but for a relatively young tree I would expect to see some indications of the 5 grafts.
I emailed Mrs. M several times, attaching close up photos of the straight whip. She stated that could not point out the grafts on the photos, but swears that the tree in question was a 5-in-1.
I decided to return both trees instead of planting them, to avoid being disappointed 3 or 4 years down the road. Mrs. M refunded my money less shipping cost.
However, I had to also pay the postage to return the trees. Overall, I'm ended up losing $30 in this transaction and got nothing for it.
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Company representative comment on March 19, 2011:
On Mar 19, 2011 11:37 AM, Mrs. M responded with:
Mr. X received 2 healthy, large, viable 5 in1 fruit trees. The grafts were clearly in tact and several buds were already swelling. I personally inspect each tree prior to shipping. The tape he is referring to is a grafting tape that the buds will grow through.
Per his own words, he is ''not an expert concerning bud grafts''. His photos clearly showed the grafts, large as day and I could not figure out a way for him to see what was in plain sight as he took the photos of the grafts himself.
I grow and sell hundreds of the ****tail type trees (several varieties) each year, as well as many other varieties of plants, and this is not something new to me nor am I a novice.
I felt it was in my best interest to offer Mr. X in a refund. Then, without notice, Mr. X returned the trees to me. Upon arrival, one bud that I had pointed out to Mr. X had opened enroute and several more have opened since. If there was a problem with the trees, they would have been replaced.
Many conversations took place over the trees. I feel this was just a situation of buyers remorse. I strive to grow and sell the best plants and to service my customers and spend many hours each day conversing with customers. I have learned over the years that you cannot please everyone.
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On March 23rd, 2011, Mr. X changed the rating from neutral to negative and added the following:
This is not a case of buyers remorse. I originally avoided giving a negative rating because I gave her the benefit of the doubt. I did not question her about the taped (Asian Pear) tree (see original comment). However, as a buyer, how can you tell if the tree is truly grafted if you could only rely on the seller to tell you that the grafts are under the tape? Most nurseries sell trees after the tapes are removed to ensure that the grafts are viable.
Second, Mrs. M was correct that the apple tree were budding but that does not indicate it was a 5-in-1. What I received was a regular apple tree when I ordered a 5-in-1 combo. If I wanted a regular apple tree I would have brought one at a local nursery and saved some money.
When I sent her numerous photos and politely suggested that perhaps she may have made a mistake in shipment, she firmly asserted that no mistake was made because she does this for a living. Well, it hard to argue with perfection.
Since I still believed it was her "mistake" (putting it nicely), I asked for a free replacement but she was only willing to offer a refund upon the return of the trees. She now has her trees back to sell to someone else. As a buyer, I got to hold the short end of the stick.
In her reply to my feedback, she stated that she would have replaced the trees if there was a problem. There was a problem as I repeatedly tried to convey to her through my emails (she has no phone number listed). The problem was not the viability of the trees but that I received something substantially different from what I ordered.
By the way, I am willing to email the photos to anyone interested. A picture is worth a thousand words.
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Excerpt of email sent to me:
Dear Mr. X.
Please be advised that I just spoke with my legal counsel. After reading your comments, I have been advised to contact you and inform you that if you do not remove your negative comments immediately from any and all online web sites about myself and our company, we are fully prepared to sue for defamation, libel and slander.
Any further contact can be made between my legal counsel and yours.
______________________________________________
I am willing to retract my comments if I made any statements that constitute libel, but I feel that the seller is attempting to bully by using the threat of lawsuit. Can she sue me? Should I retract or not retract my opinion on the forum?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
First, I would like to apologize for the long post. I purchased two trees from a lady from South Carolina through her website. The trees were supposed to have several different variety of fruits grafted onto them. The trees that I received did not appear to be grafted, although I was not 100% positive of this fact. I suspected that I was scammed but did not accuse the seller of such because the seller has numerous positive feedbacks from others. After I returned the trees for a partial refund, I left a neutral feedback on a well-known gardening forum. The seller responded to my comments and the discourse resulted in me changing the rating to negative. Subsequently, the seller sent me an email threatening a libel and defamation lawsuit if I did not retract my comments. The following is what transpired on the forum:
Posted on March 18, 2011, updated March 23, 2011
I just ordered two 5-in-1 fruit trees. The trees were shipped promptly. Both trees looked healthy and had good strong roots. Unfortunately, I could not discern any indication that the trees were grafted.
One of the tree was taped so I could not tell if the grafts were underneath. The other tree was a 2' straight whip with a smooth outer bark from top to bottom of uniform color; absolutely no sign of any graft. I am not an expert concerning bud grafts, but for a relatively young tree I would expect to see some indications of the 5 grafts.
I emailed Mrs. M several times, attaching close up photos of the straight whip. She stated that could not point out the grafts on the photos, but swears that the tree in question was a 5-in-1.
I decided to return both trees instead of planting them, to avoid being disappointed 3 or 4 years down the road. Mrs. M refunded my money less shipping cost.
However, I had to also pay the postage to return the trees. Overall, I'm ended up losing $30 in this transaction and got nothing for it.
________________________________________
Company representative comment on March 19, 2011:
On Mar 19, 2011 11:37 AM, Mrs. M responded with:
Mr. X received 2 healthy, large, viable 5 in1 fruit trees. The grafts were clearly in tact and several buds were already swelling. I personally inspect each tree prior to shipping. The tape he is referring to is a grafting tape that the buds will grow through.
Per his own words, he is ''not an expert concerning bud grafts''. His photos clearly showed the grafts, large as day and I could not figure out a way for him to see what was in plain sight as he took the photos of the grafts himself.
I grow and sell hundreds of the ****tail type trees (several varieties) each year, as well as many other varieties of plants, and this is not something new to me nor am I a novice.
I felt it was in my best interest to offer Mr. X in a refund. Then, without notice, Mr. X returned the trees to me. Upon arrival, one bud that I had pointed out to Mr. X had opened enroute and several more have opened since. If there was a problem with the trees, they would have been replaced.
Many conversations took place over the trees. I feel this was just a situation of buyers remorse. I strive to grow and sell the best plants and to service my customers and spend many hours each day conversing with customers. I have learned over the years that you cannot please everyone.
________________________________________
On March 23rd, 2011, Mr. X changed the rating from neutral to negative and added the following:
This is not a case of buyers remorse. I originally avoided giving a negative rating because I gave her the benefit of the doubt. I did not question her about the taped (Asian Pear) tree (see original comment). However, as a buyer, how can you tell if the tree is truly grafted if you could only rely on the seller to tell you that the grafts are under the tape? Most nurseries sell trees after the tapes are removed to ensure that the grafts are viable.
Second, Mrs. M was correct that the apple tree were budding but that does not indicate it was a 5-in-1. What I received was a regular apple tree when I ordered a 5-in-1 combo. If I wanted a regular apple tree I would have brought one at a local nursery and saved some money.
When I sent her numerous photos and politely suggested that perhaps she may have made a mistake in shipment, she firmly asserted that no mistake was made because she does this for a living. Well, it hard to argue with perfection.
Since I still believed it was her "mistake" (putting it nicely), I asked for a free replacement but she was only willing to offer a refund upon the return of the trees. She now has her trees back to sell to someone else. As a buyer, I got to hold the short end of the stick.
In her reply to my feedback, she stated that she would have replaced the trees if there was a problem. There was a problem as I repeatedly tried to convey to her through my emails (she has no phone number listed). The problem was not the viability of the trees but that I received something substantially different from what I ordered.
By the way, I am willing to email the photos to anyone interested. A picture is worth a thousand words.
_____________________________________________
Excerpt of email sent to me:
Dear Mr. X.
Please be advised that I just spoke with my legal counsel. After reading your comments, I have been advised to contact you and inform you that if you do not remove your negative comments immediately from any and all online web sites about myself and our company, we are fully prepared to sue for defamation, libel and slander.
Any further contact can be made between my legal counsel and yours.
______________________________________________
I am willing to retract my comments if I made any statements that constitute libel, but I feel that the seller is attempting to bully by using the threat of lawsuit. Can she sue me? Should I retract or not retract my opinion on the forum?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?