What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Washington
I moved in with my boyfriend the end of November 2008. He owns a home that was a complete remodel, meaning every room. Starting in August 2008 I began paying for things to get done. I loaned him $10000 initially, thought we were committed and we opened joint accounts and I added him onto my credit card.
Since then he has used over $50000 to update his house, it was our house according to him even though my name is not on the home. He has a beautiful over $25000 kitchen, $10000 that he initially borrowed and charges in the 25-35000 range on my credit card. Promises to build my account back up have gone undone as they have continued to go down dramatically.
Now that things are done in the house he is all of a sudden not sure that our relationship is worth it. How do I get my money back? He has a 401K with almost $40000 but that would only take care of about half once the penalties and taxes are taken care of.
Yes, I do now feel like a completely used idiot with this man.
Please help. Thanks.
I moved in with my boyfriend the end of November 2008. He owns a home that was a complete remodel, meaning every room. Starting in August 2008 I began paying for things to get done. I loaned him $10000 initially, thought we were committed and we opened joint accounts and I added him onto my credit card.
Since then he has used over $50000 to update his house, it was our house according to him even though my name is not on the home. He has a beautiful over $25000 kitchen, $10000 that he initially borrowed and charges in the 25-35000 range on my credit card. Promises to build my account back up have gone undone as they have continued to go down dramatically.
Now that things are done in the house he is all of a sudden not sure that our relationship is worth it. How do I get my money back? He has a 401K with almost $40000 but that would only take care of about half once the penalties and taxes are taken care of.
Yes, I do now feel like a completely used idiot with this man.
Please help. Thanks.