any advice?

What is the name of your state? Oregon


Hi Im not sure where to put this question, but since it involves my girlfriends ex husband I will post it here!

Heres the situation, My girlfriend moved in with me dec 2002, she has been divorced from her ex husband for 15 years, they have 2 children together. Her ex husband was very upset when she moved in with me and wouldnt talk to her for about 2 months, then slowly warmed up and just recently has started just showing up at our house in the middle of the day when the kids are in school. we have asked him to not harass my girlfriend and to call before he comes over, he refuses and I am really worried about him. He has done the same thing in the past where my girlfriend would ge the kids off to school and go upstairs to make there beds and when she would come back down he would be sitting at the dinner table. He has also made comments to mutual freinds of theres that he will have his family back someday.

Should I be concerned? because I am!

What can I do about it? Oregon has a law that pertains to stalkers, I think 15 years of it is staking.

Thanks!

[enjay]

She needs to get a restraining order. That's the behavior of an unpredictable, possibly mentally ill individual.