My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years, and dont plan on ever leaving each other. We plan on getting married in the future, but till then, if something were to happen to me, I would like for him to make any medical decisions if something were to happen to me. what form would i have to fill out to allow him to do this instead of my parents? Just to let you know, i'm 24 and the mother of our 2 children. we live in CT.