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I say again, you need to back away from the issues with the child and his parents.
Providing a good home for his visits is an excellent and appropriate thing for you to do.
The mother of this child is just that--his mother. She has the right to bake cookies for the entire stadium of onlookers if she wants to do it, and she is within her natural wants, desires, and rights as a mother to want her child to sit with her.
Her son would not be so 'afraid' of her, at your house, if you provided an environment that did not allow discussions of his mother's faults. You should encourage him to be respectful of his mother and you should encourage him to love his mother.
Legally, you have no rights and that it what I was telling you. If you don't like that law, you're not alone. However, it doesn't change things; step-parents have no rights.
You're right, I don't know about her, but what I read in your posts is that you have inserted yourself into the marriage of your husband and his ex. They got a divorce and you should, too--from their marriage.
You can read all about me if you do a search. If I could do things over, everything my ex asked for, no matter how ridiculous, I would just give him. The way I finally won was to offer to give him custody; he didn't want that because he would lose control over me.
I am a professional and I don't post all my degrees and qualifications here, but I assure you, this is the second time I've given you a high-dollar professional opinion for free--all within 24 hours. You can use these opinions to better your life or you keep on doing things the same way--that choice is yours.
I say again, you need to back away from the issues with the child and his parents.
Providing a good home for his visits is an excellent and appropriate thing for you to do.
The mother of this child is just that--his mother. She has the right to bake cookies for the entire stadium of onlookers if she wants to do it, and she is within her natural wants, desires, and rights as a mother to want her child to sit with her.
Her son would not be so 'afraid' of her, at your house, if you provided an environment that did not allow discussions of his mother's faults. You should encourage him to be respectful of his mother and you should encourage him to love his mother.
Legally, you have no rights and that it what I was telling you. If you don't like that law, you're not alone. However, it doesn't change things; step-parents have no rights.
You're right, I don't know about her, but what I read in your posts is that you have inserted yourself into the marriage of your husband and his ex. They got a divorce and you should, too--from their marriage.
You can read all about me if you do a search. If I could do things over, everything my ex asked for, no matter how ridiculous, I would just give him. The way I finally won was to offer to give him custody; he didn't want that because he would lose control over me.
I am a professional and I don't post all my degrees and qualifications here, but I assure you, this is the second time I've given you a high-dollar professional opinion for free--all within 24 hours. You can use these opinions to better your life or you keep on doing things the same way--that choice is yours.
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