i was asking if it is possible for a mother to get a restraining order on her daughters boyfriend against her will, even if the father of the girl said it is ok for me to date her.
and i am not disobeying the parents because one of the two parents has given consent. it is the fact that the mother is threatening to call the police and get a restraining order on me if i do not cease communication with her daughter. that is the only thing i am trying to find out. and one last thing 5 years difference isnt much, it used to happen every day in the past. the fact that society is changing and the views of whats right and wrong are changing upsets me. if we truly love each other and i and her are willing to wait until she turns of age then what is so wrong of us speaking to each other?
Ok, in all seriousness... It's wrong. Yes the mother can make legal decisions on her MINOR child's behalf. Why? Because your girlfriend is a CHILD. Do you want to go to jail and be known as a sex offender who likes underage girls?
Why is a 21 year old interested in a 16 year old? Is it that you lack the maturity to date someone your own age? What attracts you to this minor?
And yes boo boo 5 years older than a 16 year old is a big difference. And using morally corrupt dad as a scapegoat to continue your questionable behavior is WRONG.
Have you even considered the strain you are putting on the girls PARENT'S marriage with one of them allowing it and the other valiantly fighting against it? Get it together, grow up, and find yourself a WOMAN (not a little girl) of age.
I give this a few more months before she does what every teen does and goes on to explore something else.