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Skorpionn
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Enough said...
This is very true - in most cases. No, I can't say that I have known or known of many men who get custody and child support. Keep this in mind - what kind of woman was/is she that a judge would award for him on these issues. My step-kids mother is a LOSER in every way. She is NOT a loving parent, she's detrimental to them in every way. My husband took care of his kids without complaint or issue when she deserted them to be a star in L.A. HE even gave her a cell phone and paid the bill so she could call them ANYTIME. But guess what happened, she didn't call her kids but a total of 7 minutes in a three month period, yet her phone bills escalated into the hundreds, and he had no choice but to take the phone out of his name. My husband deserves some praise for his dedication to his children, not put-downs!!! I'm sure this is a touchy subject for almost anyone who's been involved in a divorce, but come on now, there is no need to attack me. I am taking better care of my step-kids than their own mother did or ever could. I don't view child support as "ransom" - it's necessary and well worth the enforcement. If a man or woman takes a chance while having sex and gets pregnant/gets someone pregnant, they SHOULD take responsibility - PERIOD!!! The children deserve someone on their side since one income is not enough to take care of children in a single parent household. I don't feel bad for a man who impregnates a woman, runs off, gets tracked down, DNA tested, and then made to pay child support - come on, keep IT in the holster or pay the consequences. Any woman who runs off and leaves her children to pursue her dream should be equally accountable. Any one being harassed for child support that they don't want to pay can very easily sign relinquishment papers thus giving away their responsibility and rights to the minor - problem solved. Yet these poor idiots hold on to some ridiculous notion that they can someday have a relationship with the kids they denied, ignored and otherwise treated like dirt - HA, HA!!!! These kids being treated like this will grow up to know that their "parent" doesn't care, never did, and never will because ACTION (no support or even any attempt at it) speaks louder than words (oh, I'll take you to Disneyland and get you a pony)!!!! Enough said, my questions have been basically answered, and I see no need for me to keep up such pointless banter.....CHILDREN DESERVE TWO LOVING PARENTS -- THEIR FATHER AND THEIR MOTHER.