Domestic Partnership disolving

[subarugal]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Washington State

I sold my house 9 years ago and had a house built with my fiance on property he owned but owed on. My name isn't on the loan but it is on the title to the house. I put money into having the house built and had $12,000 in a joint savings.

6 years ago, my son and his son which my son was driving were involved in a car wreck which his son was killed. He took my name off our joint savings. We have tried to hold it together but the grief is taken its toll and June 30th, I had him arrested for domestic violence. He pulled my hair after a screaming match.

On August 4th, I appear in court to try to have the restraining order lifted. We have had no contact with each other. I am living at my mom's but all of my stuff is still there and I paid this months bills, utilities, car and medical insurance and boat payment that is joint.

I would love to work this out but I don't want to screw him over but I need to protect myself since I don't know what he is thinking. I know he blames me.

[LdiJ]

Originally Posted by subarugal

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Washington State

I sold my house 9 years ago and had a house built with my fiance on property he owned but owed on. My name isn't on the loan but it is on the title to the house. I put money into having the house built and had $12,000 in a joint savings.

6 years ago, my son and his son which my son was driving were involved in a car wreck which his son was killed. He took my name off our joint savings. We have tried to hold it together but the grief is taken its toll and June 30th, I had him arrested for domestic violence. He pulled my hair after a screaming match.

On August 4th, I appear in court to try to have the restraining order lifted. We have had no contact with each other. I am living at my mom's but all of my stuff is still there and I paid this months bills, utilities, car and medical insurance and boat payment that is joint.

I would love to work this out but I don't want to screw him over but I need to protect myself since I don't know what he is thinking. I know he blames me.

Since you are not married, you will have to file a partition suit to divide assets that you jointly own.

You need to make arrangements, and get a police escort to retrieve your belongings.