normajean71
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Ohio
I share a lease on an apartment with my 72 year old mother who had a stroke eight years ago. We have lived here since February of this year. Recently she has been subjecting me to verbal abuse as well as my children. My older children are no longer "allowed" in the house. She calls the police on an almost daily basis over petty disagreements, talks about me and what a terrible person I am to the landlord and anyone else who will listen, and has threatened to call my employer and have me fired. She listens in on my phone calls, follows me around the house and harasses me, yelling and arguing in front of my six month old daughter. The baby's father is not permitted in the house either. In fact I am not supposed to have my family or friends in the home at all. She on the other hand can have anyone over that she likes. She demands I respect her but I get none in return. Our agreement was that she pay the majority of the bills while I function as her caregiver, she is homebound and cannot care for herself. My question is, what are my rights in this situation? Do I not have the right to have friends, family and company in my own home? Also she is ruining my reputation by her telling everyone lies about me. When the police are here they seem to feel that because she is my mother I must kowtow to her every wish. Don't I have rights also? Please help.
Lori
I share a lease on an apartment with my 72 year old mother who had a stroke eight years ago. We have lived here since February of this year. Recently she has been subjecting me to verbal abuse as well as my children. My older children are no longer "allowed" in the house. She calls the police on an almost daily basis over petty disagreements, talks about me and what a terrible person I am to the landlord and anyone else who will listen, and has threatened to call my employer and have me fired. She listens in on my phone calls, follows me around the house and harasses me, yelling and arguing in front of my six month old daughter. The baby's father is not permitted in the house either. In fact I am not supposed to have my family or friends in the home at all. She on the other hand can have anyone over that she likes. She demands I respect her but I get none in return. Our agreement was that she pay the majority of the bills while I function as her caregiver, she is homebound and cannot care for herself. My question is, what are my rights in this situation? Do I not have the right to have friends, family and company in my own home? Also she is ruining my reputation by her telling everyone lies about me. When the police are here they seem to feel that because she is my mother I must kowtow to her every wish. Don't I have rights also? Please help.
Lori