Emacipation hearing

YOUR STATE NAME - Virginia/North Carolina

Okay we went to the hearing yesterday for my girlfriends emancipation. It the hearing went as good as possible I guess. The judge finally came up with that all we were doing was switching support from her parents to me and that my girlfriend wouldn't be able to support herself if something would happen between us. So the judge denied her emancipation. After the hearing I sucked it up and went and talked to her parents. Her dad said that he wants to work it out somehow. Her mother said that she needs time to work things out with her daughter first. The three months no contact thing is no more but her parents said that they basically needed more time. They let me go and talk to my girlfriend which I haven't been able to for two months. She was on the ground crying her eyes out. I bent down and picked her up and held her close to me and told her I loved her and that everything would be allright. That was basically all that happened yesterday. I have decided that if the parents are willing to work things out then I am too. I didn't really want to runaway again with her but I was willing too. So as it stands right now us running away again is off, unless the parents were just putting on a show. I will believe that they want to work things out when I see action. Thanks for your support and help in this matter and pray for us.

[miaguy]

Don't get her pregnant, that can cause a lot of trouble. I don't know your age but for what I hear from you, you are too young to take care of your girlfriend. I'll be forty next month and currently, I am paying dearly for a similar mistake I made when I was in my early 20's. When I say I am paying believe me, I am paying economicaly and emocionaly, I' am being drained. I can't even see my daughter, I have to spend 2K every time I go to court and my ex has a lot of money, I am talking 300k house my friend. I live in a modest 130k house and have to work, she does'nt. We used to love each other and divorced 'amicably'. The sheet hit the fan when I remarried and her as well. At your age, I would worry more about spring break, cars and girls in thongs, don't mess your life over so young, she may think she loves you but wait until you piss her off, she will turn into a monster, guaranteed my friend. Go have fun, you suffer from pussy love, that can be dangerous.