EX-boyfriends house and he want me and daughter out!

[Bocajrcg]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Florida

Hello, I am a mother of 5 children and 1 of them is the child of my ex boyfriend. I moved from NJ to Florida about 2 years ago. Our intentions were to move because of better job offer in Florida for him, so I gained legal permission to move with all my kids b/c of this reason. He purchased a home in his name and I moved down with all the kids, his job fell through so he is still living in NJ. We slowly parted and now for the past year or so we have not been together but remained friends. Our agreement was that he paid for the house adn I live there with the kids and he can come visit them whenever he wants and this is his sort of childsupport for the baby. This was all verbally b/c we were friends. He now wants to set rules as to what I can and can't do as if he is my father. He says if I don't like it to leave... and no he wants me out regardless. Do I have any rights to stay in the house since I had a place to live in NJ but b/c of his better opportunity we moved to FL? I know the house is not mine but I do help pay bills and some towards the house but not much. Please advise if any at all rights in this situation... Thanks allot!

[LdiJ]

Originally Posted by Bocajrcg

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Florida

Hello, I am a mother of 5 children and 1 of them is the child of my ex boyfriend. I moved from NJ to Florida about 2 years ago. Our intentions were to move because of better job offer in Florida for him, so I gained legal permission to move with all my kids b/c of this reason. He purchased a home in his name and I moved down with all the kids, his job fell through so he is still living in NJ. We slowly parted and now for the past year or so we have not been together but remained friends. Our agreement was that he paid for the house adn I live there with the kids and he can come visit them whenever he wants and this is his sort of childsupport for the baby. This was all verbally b/c we were friends. He now wants to set rules as to what I can and can't do as if he is my father. He says if I don't like it to leave... and no he wants me out regardless. Do I have any rights to stay in the house since I had a place to live in NJ but b/c of his better opportunity we moved to FL? I know the house is not mine but I do help pay bills and some towards the house but not much. Please advise if any at all rights in this situation... Thanks allot!

No, you do not have any rights regarding his house.

What you do have the right to do is file for child support for the child that you and he share...and then get your own place to live or even move back to NJ.

[Gracie3787]

Originally Posted by Bocajrcg

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Florida

Hello, I am a mother of 5 children and 1 of them is the child of my ex boyfriend. I moved from NJ to Florida about 2 years ago. Our intentions were to move because of better job offer in Florida for him, so I gained legal permission to move with all my kids b/c of this reason. He purchased a home in his name and I moved down with all the kids, his job fell through so he is still living in NJ. We slowly parted and now for the past year or so we have not been together but remained friends. Our agreement was that he paid for the house adn I live there with the kids and he can come visit them whenever he wants and this is his sort of childsupport for the baby. This was all verbally b/c we were friends. He now wants to set rules as to what I can and can't do as if he is my father. He says if I don't like it to leave... and no he wants me out regardless. Do I have any rights to stay in the house since I had a place to live in NJ but b/c of his better opportunity we moved to FL? I know the house is not mine but I do help pay bills and some towards the house but not much. Please advise if any at all rights in this situation... Thanks allot!

The only rights you have concerning the house is to stay put until he files for a legal eviction. When he does that, all you have to do is file a response stating what your agreement is and that you have filed for a CS order. That will not prevent the legal eviction, but it will delay the process long enough for you to find other housing.

Monday morning you should go to the Florida Dept of Revenue Child Support Enforcement to get the CS process started. You can find your local office at this site:

[url]http://dor.myflorida.com/dor/childsupport/[/url]