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Old 03-14-2003, 09:00 AM
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Ex is dating married man


What is the name of your state? Wisconsin

My ex wife has been through 3 different men in the 5 months we have been divorced. She is now dating a married man with 2 sons (13 and 9) I have two daughters 9 and 4. I am very concerned for my children as they are spending nights at this mans house. We have joint and equal placement we switch the children every other week. Is there anything I can do to have my children stopped from being in this situation?
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Old 03-14-2003, 10:11 AM
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There's likely little you can do. From the sounds of it, the guy is also going through a divorce, yes?
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Old 03-14-2003, 10:46 AM
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I am not aware of a divorce pending, that is what I am worried about. I do know they just seperated about 3 weeks ago but nothing has been filed at this time. My concern here is that this man is going to end up back with his wife down the road and my kids are going to get hurt again, as this is the third man she has been with so she will get dumped by this man and move on to her next. I know this sounds silly and I know it really is none of my business who she is with but she keeps bringing my children into all of these relationships. I figured there probably was nothing I could do just thought maybe some one had a good idea of how to protect my children from being drugged through all of these relationships.
Thanks for your response.
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Old 03-14-2003, 10:57 AM
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The best way to protect your kids is by showing them a better example. My ex had multiple g/f's in and out of our kids lives before he met his current wife. They got to the point where they just rolled their eyes and said "another of Dad's 'friends'".
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Old 03-14-2003, 10:59 AM
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Thanks for yor reply. Yeah I hope my children will see it that way..Thanks again..
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Old 03-14-2003, 02:05 PM
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An excellent website for fathers:

[url]www.deltabravo.net/custody/[/url]
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Old 03-17-2003, 09:05 AM
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not a thing you can do except to follow the advice of professionals regarding proper behavior in the example you exhibit to your children when they are with you.They will see, feel and hear or themselves and eventually be influenced by your positive imput.This is harder advice to follow than to give.
good luck to you
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Old 03-17-2003, 09:33 AM
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This is harder advice to follow than to give.
good luck to you
I'm not sure I agree with that. I don't think it's that hard, to be honest.
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