How can I get my property back?

I live in California.

while i was in custody, my wife obtained a divorce. though i don't care about her divorcing me, my wife's attorney was asked by the superior court judge to make arrangements with my ex-wife in order to allow me to get my property. all of my property is in her possesion, and is worth almost $20,000. i have called her attorney twice and have also sent the attorney 2 letters, but have gotten nowhere. i don't have an attorney and am frustrated. this has gone on for over a month.

since there is a retraining order, i am not able to contact my wife directly, so her attorney is the only liason that I have. needless to say, i am in a very difficult position.

all i want is my property. what is most valuable are my family photos that are irreplaceable.

what can i do?

is this something that i can tak before the judge once again and file an order to show cause?