How do I.....

[Ukiah]

I have Questions about going to mediation in the new County;

After our case is set up in the new county, and I make an appointment for Mediation with my X, how should I approach the issue of my wanting Custody?

I don't want to seem anxious, I am sincere in wanting custody, but I don't want to go full throttle if it's going to hurt the end result.

Should I start by asking for changes and more time with my daughter, or should I just come out and say I want custody? How would it be viewed by the courts if I come out and say it?

Since we will be dealing with a new mediator, there are 2 in the new county, how do I "interview" them?

We've all suggested to visit the courtroom to watch an Attorney in action, but how do I do that with a mediator? (Plus I'm one and a half hours away)

I am afraid of the fact that my X has Hitler-like qualities... he can charm and lie and make everyone believe him, until you really get to know him, I don't have time for them to get to know him like I do.... when I'm around him, not only do I feel like I want to hit him (I won't) but I shake, and get cold from head to toe.

Are there printed rules a mediator has to follow? where can I get them? (like Rules of the court)

Here I go again...preparing and over preparing...

UKIAH





[Edited by Ukiah on 03-22-2001 at 01:05 PM]

 

[I AM ALWAYS LIABLE]

My response:

Ukiah, Ukiah, Ukiah. Now you've forced my hand. I'm just going to have to get rough and tough with you.

I want you to e-mail Mary, and have her send me your e-mail address. Then, I'll write to you.

IAAL

 

[Ukiah]

My response:

Ukiah, Ukiah, Ukiah. Now you've forced my hand. I'm just going to have to get rough and tough with you.

I want you to e-mail Mary, and have her send me your e-mail address. Then, I'll write to you.

IAAL

OK, as long as you don't yell at me... I might cry...

[Edited by Ukiah on 03-22-2001 at 04:07 PM]

 

[I AM ALWAYS LIABLE]

My response:

Ukiah, Ukiah, Ukiah. Now you've forced my hand. I'm just going to have to get rough and tough with you.

I want you to e-mail Mary, and have her send me your e-mail address. Then, I'll write to you.

IAAL

OK, as long as you don't yell at me... I might cry...

[Edited by Ukiah on 03-22-2001 at 04:07 PM]

My response:

No, no, no. Nothing like that. I'm just going to take you to the next level of your education and "empower" you with what you need to know - - and even more !

So, now it's just a matter of waiting for Mary to get off of her cute, little, tuche and send me your e-mail address.

IAAL

 

[Ukiah]

My response:

Ukiah, Ukiah, Ukiah. Now you've forced my hand. I'm just going to have to get rough and tough with you.

I want you to e-mail Mary, and have her send me your e-mail address. Then, I'll write to you.

IAAL

OK, as long as you don't yell at me... I might cry...



[Edited by Ukiah on 03-22-2001 at 04:35 PM]

 

[Ukiah]

My response:

Okay, got it. Will now write to you - - along with all the other nutzo's that just got your e-mail address.

IAAL

I shall await your instruction...