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08-14-2008, 05:33 PM
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| | | How do I go about fighting against sister and family? Hello everyone,
First, I was not sure where to post this in the family section, so will someone please move it to the right section.
I am not sure where to begin. I am not sure what I want to do is some kind of revenge or pay back. I have been forced to PA from NJ 18 years ago when I was 8 years old and my cousin had legal guardianship. My mom passed away in 1990. My sister forced me to leave the state of NJ. No, that is not all. My cousins abused me and used my Social Security illegally. I don't have proof for that but I do have proof they abused me. If I shaved my head bold I have scares on my head from being busted open. Just because my older sister said she can't handle me but she went and did drugs. I want but not sure how or if I want to do it but I want to sue her in front of everyone. Where would this proccess take place? Are they any lawyers (attorneys) can defend such a case that is 18 years old? One way or another it will be settled. How much will a lawyer cost? Do I need the money up front? Thank you everyone! | 
08-14-2008, 05:41 PM
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| | | You won't be able to prevail in a suit such as you are seeking. The more effective remedy for you would be counseling with a good therapist/psychologist.
Just a quick note on the whole scars-on-the-head thing. If you shaved my head bald, you'd see a big scar too - but it was from a bicycle accident I had as a child. If you shaved my daughter's head open, you would find a scar there, but it was from her standing up in a chair and falling over & hitting her head...
A scar on your head is not "proof"...sorry.
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08-14-2008, 05:43 PM
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Originally Posted by Zigner ...
If you shaved my head bald, you'd see a big scar too - but it was from a bicycle accident I had as a child.
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Hmmm...this certainly explains a lot.
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08-14-2008, 05:52 PM
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Originally Posted by seniorjudge Hmmm...this certainly explains a lot. |
Somehow, I KNEW that was coming 
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08-14-2008, 05:53 PM
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| | | Ok, why isn't the "quote" function working?
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08-14-2008, 06:32 PM
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| | | Quotes don't work in this forum. This might be related to the fact that this forum does not deal with legal questions :wink:
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08-14-2008, 06:35 PM
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| | | So what you guys/girls are saying there is NO way to take an 18 year old case and put it on the stand and defend it that ended 8 years ago at the end of October and sue her? | 
08-14-2008, 06:36 PM
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Originally Posted by php111 So what you guys/girls are saying there is NO way to take an 18 year old case and put it on the stand and defend it that ended 8 years ago at the end of October and sue her? | Well, your "question" doesn't make sense. But I'll answer with: Yeah, that's what we're saying.
PS: As has been pointed out, this isn't the right forum to post in, this is for technical issues related to the forum itself.
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08-14-2008, 06:38 PM
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You have no case.
Period.
End of story.
Even if.
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08-14-2008, 06:55 PM
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| | | OP - you really should seek the help of a therapists to get you past your emotional issues (anger, resentment, feelings of abandonment)...
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08-16-2008, 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Zigner OP - you really should seek the help of a therapists to get you past your emotional issues (anger, resentment, feelings of abandonment)... | Zigner,
I be honest with you, I see a physchatrists every few months for MH (Mental Health), and those doctors I don't trust. I don't even trust a therapists and that place let alone the doctor. That is why I don't go their for day program just for the doctor and then every 4 weeks for a shot in my arm. That is the truth. Other then that, I really don't know where to go for help. By the way, I have Medicare (Primary) and Medicaid straight Access (secondary) to pay for for any doctors and so on. | 
08-16-2008, 08:43 PM
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Originally Posted by php111 Zigner,
I be honest with you, I see a physchatrists every few months for MH (Mental Health), and those doctors I don't trust. I don't even trust a therapists and that place let alone the doctor. That is why I don't go their for day program just for the doctor and then every 4 weeks for a shot in my arm. That is the truth. Other then that, I really don't know where to go for help. By the way, I have Medicare (Primary) and Medicaid straight Access (secondary) to pay for for any doctors and so on. | Sounds like you need to tell the psychiatrists that your medications need to be adjusted up if you're this paranoid even about receiving treatment.
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08-16-2008, 10:32 PM
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Originally Posted by php111 Zigner,
I be honest with you, I see a physchatrists every few months for MH (Mental Health), and those doctors I don't trust. I don't even trust a therapists and that place let alone the doctor. That is why I don't go their for day program just for the doctor and then every 4 weeks for a shot in my arm. That is the truth. Other then that, I really don't know where to go for help. By the way, I have Medicare (Primary) and Medicaid straight Access (secondary) to pay for for any doctors and so on. | How would you trust the legal system then?
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08-17-2008, 02:10 PM
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Originally Posted by Ohiogal How would you trust the legal system then? | I rather trust the legal system then those idiot doctors. I even trust my family doctor over that place where the psychatrists are at. My family doctor doesn't do the therapists and everything though. My froster family even told me his self he doesn't trust that doctor and that pretty bad. I not only said it but the guy I live with told me. | 
08-17-2008, 04:51 PM
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| | | You seem to want revenge and for the world to know. Sounds like you don't have a legal case. Life is often not fair. That's reality. We need to learn to live in reality.
Your anger and need for revenge is a bit scary. You said " One way or another it will be settled." What other ways are you thinking of settling this?
The best revenge is to live well yourself. Cut thm out of your life.
Take care of yourself and get better. Shed the anger and be a better person.
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