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12-11-2006, 07:44 PM
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| | | I have questions that need answers Pennsylvania can anyone help me with my questions?
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12-11-2006, 07:46 PM
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Originally Posted by Michele Holota What is the name of your state? PA.What is the name of your state? | Ok...then ask your question and we may be able to give you answers. | 
12-11-2006, 07:54 PM
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| | | questions Pennsylvania my husband is 25 years older than me he was married before 36 years. he went threw a bad divorce. he has 3 kids as old as me or older. i have a 7 year old with him. he made me sign a preenump. he is verbally abusing me everyday. he wants me to pay for the family insurance because he can't work. the insurance takes my whole paycheck. then he verbally abusies me that i bring nothing home. he will not sleep with me and his kids no it he and they say that mean all the difference later on. he threatens to take away my car. i get ssi do to he and i were out of work i will get that till i hit 12,000 then it goes back to our 7 year old son. he wants the check sign over to him. this is his house and he just throws everything in my face all the time. can he legally do this to me. i can not take this abuse. i have no place to go and i give more than half of my wages for a family plan. but he says i pay nothing i have no say in anything. is this true. and his x calls and his kids all hate me.
Last edited by Michele Holota; 12-11-2006 at 08:00 PM.
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12-11-2006, 07:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Michele Holota What is the name of your state? PA.What is the name of your state? | Pennsylvania | 
12-11-2006, 08:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Michele Holota my husband is 25 years older than me he was married before 36 years. he went threw a bad divorce. he has 3 kids as old as me or older. i have a 7 year old with him. he made me sign a preenump. he is verbally abusing me everyday. he wants me to pay for the family insurance because he can't work. the insurance takes my whole paycheck. then he verbally abusies me that i bring nothing home. he will not sleep with me and his kids no it he and they say that mean all the difference later on. he threatens to take away my car. i get ssi do to he and i were out of work i will get that till i hit 12,000 then it goes back to our 7 year old son. he wants the check sign over to him. this is his house and he just throws everything in my face all the time. can he legally do this to me. i can not take this abuse. i have no place to go and i give more than half of my wages for a family plan. but he says i pay nothing i have no say in anything. is this true. and his x calls and his kids all hate me. | Ok...I read that like 5 times and still don't understand it thoroughly. However, my advice is that you need an attorney. | 
12-11-2006, 08:29 PM
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| | | I will explain better sorry I am sorry you do not understand I will try to explain it better. My husband is 63 years old I am 38 years old. We have a 7 year old together. He was divorced before he has kids the same age as me. He verbally abusies me. I live here with him in his home he made me sign a preenump. He is on SSD he gets money for our son. I get $400. of that in my name because I lost my job for awhile and when I hit 12,000 where I work now it goes back to my son. Because his dad does not work. My husband wants me to sign check over to him. I have to pay for the health insurance in the family he. It takes my whole pay check and no I can't pay him anything I am contruibing. He continues to abuse me and say that it is his car, his house. I can't take it anymore. Can he do this to me I can't take it what can I do.
Michele from Pennsylvania | 
12-11-2006, 08:58 PM
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| | | I am not getting any answers to any of my questions Pennsylvania read all my other stuff can I get a reply? | 
12-12-2006, 06:34 AM
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| | | If you are that unhappy in your marriage then you probably need to get a divorce. It would be in your best interest to hire an attorney to handle the divorce. | 
12-12-2006, 07:23 AM
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Originally Posted by Michele Holota Pennsylvania read all my other stuff can I get a reply? | Why are you still there? Take your son and go to a shelter and get out. There is no reason why you should be giving your entire check to this man. He doesn't own you.
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