What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Maryland
My mom was diagnosed with Dementia in July 2008. In Oct 2008 my sister persuaded my mom to change her Will, Financial Assets, POA into her name only. She had my name removed from all legal documents (Will, POA for Health Decisions and Finances, etc). The attorney came to my mom's home for the signing. The new Will and POA has been 'filed' in the statement of Wills.
In December 2008, my mom had an additional POA changed into the name of a former rent tenant of hers.
(It gets worse). My sister tried to over turn it by having a back dated POA and having it notarized by a neighbor who is a licensed notary. The neighbor refused to partake in what was 'suspicious'. A week later my sister had my mom committed into a psychiatric facility (Sheppard Pratt Hospital, Baltimore MD). She falsified information stating that my mom was a harm to herself and others and created a list of other untrue issues regarding my mom.
My sister cleverly hid this from me and other family members, giving us the impression that all was well with my mom; and never telling us that she was in the hospital. It was my younger sister who confessed what was going on.
As a result of the false information given to the doctors, my mom was placed on an anti-psychotic drug called Haloperidol (Haldol), which is a mind altering drug and it is clearly stated that it should not be given to elderly patients with Dementia, for it can cause death. Most deaths are caused by heart issues.
I had her taken off of the meds. Since then she has been more coherent, she is able to walk and has far more energy.
I have verbal attests from my mom's doctors that she is not psychotic. They had made their determination based upon the information that my sister had fabricated in commit my mom. My mom's primary care physician has told me that he suspected there were untruths, but he was concerned about being wrong in not believing what my sister was telling him.
I was able to speak with the hospital social worker who shared that my mom expressed her fears of my sister (who had her committed) having control of her finances. My daughter and I also have hand written letters by my mom of these same fears that she wrote to us in 2006. We also have a copy of a typed letter, signed by my sister in Oct 2006, where she threatened to have my mom committed and declared incompetent. My mom suspected her of using my mom's home as collateral; which resulted in disagreements between them.
In addition, there is a lawyer who also has a depostion of this same information which my mom shared with him in 2006 when she obtained him to write her Will and POA to have my daughter as I as trustees over her entire estate. The problem is that we cannot afford to even talk with this lawyer. We are currently in the process in paying him for a total of 2 hours of telephone conversations which we simply cannot afford to pay. He shared with us that we would have to file for guardianship of my mom, but that will cost $5000. We don't have that amount of money.
Right now, my sister has full control of all of my mom's assets, even the deed to her home which is paid in full. She is spending money like there is no tomorrow. I have no idea what my mom's total assets are and I'm concerned if my mom will have any funds for her care.
Please advise us. What can we do? This issue is so bizarre; I can't believe that it is happening. There's more but it's just too much to type.
Thank you so much just for 'listening'.
My mom was diagnosed with Dementia in July 2008. In Oct 2008 my sister persuaded my mom to change her Will, Financial Assets, POA into her name only. She had my name removed from all legal documents (Will, POA for Health Decisions and Finances, etc). The attorney came to my mom's home for the signing. The new Will and POA has been 'filed' in the statement of Wills.
In December 2008, my mom had an additional POA changed into the name of a former rent tenant of hers.
(It gets worse). My sister tried to over turn it by having a back dated POA and having it notarized by a neighbor who is a licensed notary. The neighbor refused to partake in what was 'suspicious'. A week later my sister had my mom committed into a psychiatric facility (Sheppard Pratt Hospital, Baltimore MD). She falsified information stating that my mom was a harm to herself and others and created a list of other untrue issues regarding my mom.
My sister cleverly hid this from me and other family members, giving us the impression that all was well with my mom; and never telling us that she was in the hospital. It was my younger sister who confessed what was going on.
As a result of the false information given to the doctors, my mom was placed on an anti-psychotic drug called Haloperidol (Haldol), which is a mind altering drug and it is clearly stated that it should not be given to elderly patients with Dementia, for it can cause death. Most deaths are caused by heart issues.
I had her taken off of the meds. Since then she has been more coherent, she is able to walk and has far more energy.
I have verbal attests from my mom's doctors that she is not psychotic. They had made their determination based upon the information that my sister had fabricated in commit my mom. My mom's primary care physician has told me that he suspected there were untruths, but he was concerned about being wrong in not believing what my sister was telling him.
I was able to speak with the hospital social worker who shared that my mom expressed her fears of my sister (who had her committed) having control of her finances. My daughter and I also have hand written letters by my mom of these same fears that she wrote to us in 2006. We also have a copy of a typed letter, signed by my sister in Oct 2006, where she threatened to have my mom committed and declared incompetent. My mom suspected her of using my mom's home as collateral; which resulted in disagreements between them.
In addition, there is a lawyer who also has a depostion of this same information which my mom shared with him in 2006 when she obtained him to write her Will and POA to have my daughter as I as trustees over her entire estate. The problem is that we cannot afford to even talk with this lawyer. We are currently in the process in paying him for a total of 2 hours of telephone conversations which we simply cannot afford to pay. He shared with us that we would have to file for guardianship of my mom, but that will cost $5000. We don't have that amount of money.
Right now, my sister has full control of all of my mom's assets, even the deed to her home which is paid in full. She is spending money like there is no tomorrow. I have no idea what my mom's total assets are and I'm concerned if my mom will have any funds for her care.
Please advise us. What can we do? This issue is so bizarre; I can't believe that it is happening. There's more but it's just too much to type.
Thank you so much just for 'listening'.
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