I need major advice asap

[MandaBrand21]

What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? New Jersey. I need advice. My husband cheated on me and then left me for her and now people from my church are telling me that his "other wife" is pregnant but we haven't even filed for a divorce yet. (I'm also 7 months pregnant w/ his child) He won't even speak to me. what do I do if he did marry her illegally? His parents think he might be using my name to get benifits for her.
He is a part-time national-gaurd solider. What can I do???? I also was told to put a public notice in 3 news papers so I won't be responiable for any debt he and her builds, is that a good idea??

[BelizeBreeze]

Originally Posted by MandaBrand21

What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? New Jersey. I need advice. My husband cheated on me and then left me for her and now people from my church are telling me that his "other wife" is pregnant but we haven't even filed for a divorce yet. (I'm also 7 months pregnant w/ his child) He won't even speak to me. what do I do if he did marry her illegally?

You call the prosecuting attorney and file Bigamy charges against him.

His parents think he might be using my name to get benifits for her.

And if that is the case, then call the insurance carrier and let them know he is committing insurance fraud.

He is a part-time national-gaurd solider. What can I do????

You can't do anything about that.

I also was told to put a public notice in 3 news papers so I won't be responiable for any debt he and her builds, is that a good idea??

That's the most worthless advice you could have gotten.

What you DO is to go to the courthouse first thing in the morning and file for divorce on the basis of adultry, abandonment of the marriage and emotion abuse.

[Wolflmg]

Make sure you get child support from him.

[Gracie3787]

Originally Posted by Wolflmg

Make sure you get child support from him.

To add: also make VERY sure that you file for CS BEFORE the other mother does.