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Ukiah
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He came to p/u daughter and suggested we "share" her every other year- One year she is with me, the next she is with him...
Even though (to me) this doesn't sound like something beneficial to our child, my first thought is that he is fearing the outcome of the evaluation, and is trying to avoid paying support if the evaluator decides our daughter should live with me.
I thought our daughter wouldn't be able to establish her self at either residence IF we were to agree to this arrangement.
He said he would talk it over with the evaluator (today) when he goes in with our daughter for their session together.
On the other hand, it is appealing, IF he truly wants to do this, and try to change his attitude towards me. I still feel it won't work- because it's like he's doing me a favor for his own benefit, not out of concern for our daughter.
OH get this, his wife even admitted they KNOW our daughter wants to be with me - The reason (I feel) he doesn't want to let her go is because he's afraid of having to pay support for her.
Anyways, he didn't file his Points & Authorities. Our court date has been continued to 8-17-01.
Thanks for any input.
Even though (to me) this doesn't sound like something beneficial to our child, my first thought is that he is fearing the outcome of the evaluation, and is trying to avoid paying support if the evaluator decides our daughter should live with me.
I thought our daughter wouldn't be able to establish her self at either residence IF we were to agree to this arrangement.
He said he would talk it over with the evaluator (today) when he goes in with our daughter for their session together.
On the other hand, it is appealing, IF he truly wants to do this, and try to change his attitude towards me. I still feel it won't work- because it's like he's doing me a favor for his own benefit, not out of concern for our daughter.
OH get this, his wife even admitted they KNOW our daughter wants to be with me - The reason (I feel) he doesn't want to let her go is because he's afraid of having to pay support for her.
Anyways, he didn't file his Points & Authorities. Our court date has been continued to 8-17-01.
Thanks for any input.