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Old 10-19-2009, 09:09 PM
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Im not saying thats a fair indication of how life will be, i was just stating that he has been here for me.
My 3 choices of if i am in fact pregnant, are narrowed to one, keeping the child.
Im a stong believer in abortion=murder. As for adoption, i couldnt ever do that.

I know about what reality says about teenagers having children and getting married. We are planning on actually getting married in 2-4 years. But if i am pregnant, i was wanting to get married to him so that myself, the baby and him could live together as a family. I know you will probably take what i said in the wrong context.
You are both unemployed. How exactly are you going to support a child?
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Old 10-19-2009, 09:11 PM
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No i am not, but the people she lived with witnessed her doing such drugs, and the father went to pick the son up at her apartment one day because he wanted him back, and him and my brother both witnessed them smoking marijuana around the baby. I am talking about when she does actually have the baby.
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Old 10-19-2009, 09:13 PM
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We are both looking and applying for jobs, but with the way the economy is, and laying of people, it is hard to find a steady job. Ohio is worst for it, especially for where i live, since DHL has moved out. There is no jobs to find because all of the DHL/ABX employees have taken up most of the jobs. As you all should know, its hard for an adult to find a job nowadays, let alone a teenager, be it they are 16, or 19.
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No i am not, but the people she lived with witnessed her doing such drugs, and the father went to pick the son up at her apartment one day because he wanted him back, and him and my brother both witnessed them smoking marijuana around the baby. I am talking about when she does actually have the baby.
So you don't know.

(If Dad was so concerned about it why, incidentally, did he not do anything about it?)

And how is he paying child support if he's unemployed?
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I do know she is, and he has called the cops and they just went to her apartment and didnt do anything. The town i live in, the police force is messed up, they dont really care about what you do. Because a good 99% of them do drugs themselves. The child support recently became in effect, he has about a month or so to get the money, which is only $53.08 a month or somewhere around there.
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I do know she is, and he has called the cops and they just went to her apartment and didnt do anything.
I see. You are wrong.

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The town i live in, the police force is messed up, they dont really care about what you do. Because a good 99% of them do drugs themselves.
Tread VERY carefully here. You have no idea whether that is true or not - unless, of course, you are with the entire police force 24/7.

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The child support recently became in effect, he has about a month or so to get the money, which is only $53.08 a month or somewhere around there.
Look, most of us were at least trying to give you the benefit of the doubt even if somewhat grudgingly. But all you are doing now is proving that you are nowhere mature enough to parent a child.
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As a matter of fact, when her and myself were good friends, she had me watch the baby while she smoked marijuana right in front of him. It was a one hitter that looked like a cigarette so i didnt think anything of it til i sat and watched her smoke and it wasnt getting shorter as a normal cigarette would.
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Believe me, I know the police force very well, my brother has called the cops alot before, and they never do anything. Some guy hit my brother with a car and my brothers knee became messed up, and the cops said it was my brothers fault. Think what you want of me. I know what kind of mother i will be.
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Believe me, I know the police force very well, my brother has called the cops alot before, and they never do anything. Some guy hit my brother with a car and my brothers knee became messed up, and the cops said it was my brothers fault. Think what you want of me. I know what kind of mother i will be.
Sigh.

I give up.
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I hope you are not pregnant so that you will have a chance to grow up at the normal speed. I hope you make better choices in the future and I hope your BF doesn't break your heart.
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Dont get so frustrated Dog At 16 she is a child. She is responding as such. Listen lil one ALL 16 year old girls think they are more mature than most teenagers. ALL feel that their situation is unique. Having a hard life does not equal maturity in the way that you need to have a child. If you are pregnant well then you have to deal with that. If its your choice to keep the baby none of us can change your mind. I was 19 almost 20 when I had my first child. I was in love with the "perfect" man who turned out to be not so perfect. When I was 21 my baby was diagnosed with diabetes type 1. I had so MUCH to deal with. Its hard so hard I know you "think" you got how hard it is but you dont.

You said you know what its like to be an adult and take care of yourself MINUS bills and financial responsibility umm hun thats one of the MAJOR parts of being an adult. Of being a PARENT. You are NOT the mom to your BF's child and actually could hurt his case if you try and act like it or let the baby call you it. You cant judge the mom that could HURT his case as well. You are a legal stranger. Dont argue with me I know what I am talking about plus I dont argue with kids. Im not being mean but hey its what I tell my kids and like it or not you are one. Please realize you are in no way mature enough to be a good parent at this point. You are no way mature enough to be married. A friendship when you were 11 to a 16 year old boy is actually disturbing on many levels. When you say you both liked each other its even MORE disturbing.
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Taking odds on if OP is pregnant that we'll see her here in 12-18mths, wanting to get rid of BabyDaddy/get him to sign away his rights (as if it were even possible)/make him pay CS and why New Boyfriend can't be BabyDaddy?
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Taking odds on if OP is pregnant that we'll see her here in 12-18mths, wanting to get rid of BabyDaddy/get him to sign away his rights (as if it were even possible)/make him pay CS and why New Boyfriend can't be BabyDaddy?

really? you actually gave her ALL that time??

6 months. tops. teenage hormones. pregnancy hormones.....it's like a train wreck....you see it coming...and you can't do anything to stop it. but you can't look away.
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really? you actually gave her ALL that time??

6 months. tops. teenage hormones. pregnancy hormones.....it's like a train wreck....you see it coming...and you can't do anything to stop it. but you can't look away.
Kind of like that one scene in Clerks II.
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...train wreck waiting to happen people!!!
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