Injunction against someone calling?

sooner · #1 02-10-2005, 09:28 AM

What is the name of your state? Oklahoma

My wife and I have had marital problems for the past 9 months, due in large part to her having an affair. We have worked things out. However, checking the phone bill, I noticed that she had made a couple calls within the past month to the man with whom she had the affair. She claims that he had tried to call her at the beauty school she is attending, and that she was only calling to tell him to stop calling.

My question is: Is it possible to get an injunction against him to prevent him from contacting her in any way? She said that she is willing to file something like this if it is possible. I was just unsure whether there was anything that can be done in this situation.

Thanks

stealth2 · #2 02-10-2005, 09:40 AM

Dude - wake up and smell the roses. She does not HAVE to return any of his calls - she chooses to.

sooner · #3 02-10-2005, 10:03 AM

I realize this. I am not staying because of her. I am staying because of my 2 stepchildren and my daughter. I would not get any visitation with the 2 boys even though I have been with them longer than their biological father. I would get very little time with my daughter.

She doesn't want me to leave and I just need to know if there is anything we can do to prevent him from calling. If she calls after this then I will leave. This is just a last ditch effort to keep my children.

stealth2 · #4 02-10-2005, 10:19 AM

Of course she doesn't want you to leave - she's got the best of both worlds right now. You don't seem to understand that she really doesn't want him to stop calling. I would simply make it plain to her that if you find out she has returned a call of his ever again - even once - you're gone.

sooner · #5 02-10-2005, 10:35 AM

This has been made plain to her. I do realize what is going on here. It's been 6 months since I moved back home and she supposedly hadn't talked to him during this time. I know that it doesn't take 6 months to get rid of someone. It only takes a few seconds to explain that you don't want to talk to them anymore.

I know why she is staying. She has a great life right now. She doesn't have to work. Lives in a huge home out in the country. Basically, she has a great lifestyle and for the past year or so has been able to have her cake and eat it too.

I know that I should leave her. It's the leaving the kids part that I cannot do. I honestly believe that my children are better off with me there. I am willing to sacrifice my happiness for the best interest of my children.