spanky0666
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? california
back in 1990 my wife and me sepreated due to,,,,well to be honest we just didn't have the same idea of how our lifestyles shopuld be. we had agreed that she would have custidy and i would have visitation. as time went on and i finally was in a place where i could,,,actualy til then my live situations was not sufficant for son (2 yyear old) to stay over,,, feel ok with my son over for weekend visits and the agrement between us also reflected that. one weekend when my son was over and i stepped out for a minute and my roommates were watching over son asleep, my ex- went by using some excus got my room mates to allow her to say good night to son, who was already asleep,. when i returned home i found thing in my room where son was sleeping that suggested that she may have had other thoughts of endangering my legal freedom. the next day,which was sunday, i confrounted her and informed her that due to her actions that night that i wanted to reverse to agreement, and she said that she would agree. on monday son had dr appt she had to take him to and when i went to where she was living i found out that she wasn't there, and from that day i haven't seen or hear from her or my son( attime when she left she was pregant with my child" suppose to be twines") what i need to know is this.... i think, after seeking houndreds of people seaches, i might have found her whereabouts and now im affraid that if i try to contact her or my son, who will be 18 in august, that i may have to 1 pay all that back child support. 2 she may disappear again and this time i may never find my son and 3 i might get a wild hair knowing it's her and try to go to her location and make attempt to seeing son and things go wrong and i end up freedomless. any advice would be greatly accepted and taken with much thought. thank all who can help.
back in 1990 my wife and me sepreated due to,,,,well to be honest we just didn't have the same idea of how our lifestyles shopuld be. we had agreed that she would have custidy and i would have visitation. as time went on and i finally was in a place where i could,,,actualy til then my live situations was not sufficant for son (2 yyear old) to stay over,,, feel ok with my son over for weekend visits and the agrement between us also reflected that. one weekend when my son was over and i stepped out for a minute and my roommates were watching over son asleep, my ex- went by using some excus got my room mates to allow her to say good night to son, who was already asleep,. when i returned home i found thing in my room where son was sleeping that suggested that she may have had other thoughts of endangering my legal freedom. the next day,which was sunday, i confrounted her and informed her that due to her actions that night that i wanted to reverse to agreement, and she said that she would agree. on monday son had dr appt she had to take him to and when i went to where she was living i found out that she wasn't there, and from that day i haven't seen or hear from her or my son( attime when she left she was pregant with my child" suppose to be twines") what i need to know is this.... i think, after seeking houndreds of people seaches, i might have found her whereabouts and now im affraid that if i try to contact her or my son, who will be 18 in august, that i may have to 1 pay all that back child support. 2 she may disappear again and this time i may never find my son and 3 i might get a wild hair knowing it's her and try to go to her location and make attempt to seeing son and things go wrong and i end up freedomless. any advice would be greatly accepted and taken with much thought. thank all who can help.
