In love with sex offender

[crstna]

I am a mother of 2 engaged to a considered sex offender. When my fiancee was 18 he had a relationship with a 13 year old. Her parents were okay with it. And they didnt even show up to court against him. His lawyer told him to plea guilty. With no evidence. How can we fight this? Now, He has lived in this state for 3 years with family and they brought it back on him. So he got into trouble. I know him VERY WELL and he is no sex predator!!!! We have been together for a while and planned to get married but now we are told that he can't be around my babies. Who they consider as Daddy. How can we legally all live together under the same roof? This is breaking our hearts!!!! Can we move or what can be done???What is the name of your state? Ohio

WTF? This is a joke right?

[stealth2]

You can't. So you get to choose between him and your kids. I'd love to know what's going on in your head that you would even consider bringing your children around such a threat.

[rmet4nzkx]

Originally Posted by stealth2

I'd love to know what's going on in your head that you would even consider bringing your children around such a threat.

You don't want to know

[Wolflmg]

Whats wrong with you? Do you want to know what could and probably will happen, if you allow this to happen? That guy will probably do some very nasty things to your kids while your not at home, messing them up real bad. And it will be your fault because you let the guy into your life with your eyes closed.


Do yourself and your kids a favor get this guy out of life as soon as possible, before it's too late.

[AHA]

Another bored teenager or obese, ugly person who doesn't have friends and therefore desperately make up lies online just to get some attention. Post your real story about what life is like as a loser instead, because we know nothing about what that's like, and it would be a hell of a lot more interesting to read than your bs about willingly inviting a sex predator into your children's beds..

Seek mental help first thing Monday morning!!!!!!

[stealth2]

crstna - do you read the paper? Watch any news? Do you have ANY idea what the recidivism rate is for sexual offenses? How often Mommies hook up with these a$$holes and the kids get abused?

To be blunt.... are you f*cking NUTS? If he's really that important to you, please allow your kids to go live with their father or any other family member. And every time your fiance is doin' you - think about his victims. Enjoy.

[casa]

Originally Posted by crstna

I am a mother of 2 engaged to a considered sex offender. When my fiancee was 18 he had a relationship with a 13 year old. Her parents were okay with it. And they didnt even show up to court against him. His lawyer told him to plea guilty. With no evidence. How can we fight this? Now, He has lived in this state for 3 years with family and they brought it back on him. So he got into trouble. I know him VERY WELL and he is no sex predator!!!! We have been together for a while and planned to get married but now we are told that he can't be around my babies. Who they consider as Daddy. How can we legally all live together under the same roof? This is breaking our hearts!!!! Can we move or what can be done???What is the name of your state? Ohio

What do you mean "they brought it back on him"? and that he "got into trouble"? What are you talking about? Did his own family bring ADDITIONAL charges against him...or did they notify the proper authorities he was living in the same house with minor children? (Which they absolutely should do!)

Have YOU personally reviewed this man's criminal record or are you going by what he's told you?

And...even IF it was the way you say it was, how Bizarre is that? An 18 yr old getting or out of high school- having sex with a 13 year old? At the very LEAST it was terrible judgement.

[Gracie3787]

Originally Posted by crstna

I am a mother of 2 engaged to a considered sex offender. When my fiancee was 18 he had a relationship with a 13 year old. Her parents were okay with it. And they didnt even show up to court against him. His lawyer told him to plea guilty. With no evidence. How can we fight this? Now, He has lived in this state for 3 years with family and they brought it back on him. So he got into trouble. I know him VERY WELL and he is no sex predator!!!! We have been together for a while and planned to get married but now we are told that he can't be around my babies. Who they consider as Daddy. How can we legally all live together under the same roof? This is breaking our hearts!!!! Can we move or what can be done???What is the name of your state? Ohio

This is one time that it is very sad that these on line forums are anonymous, because if they weren't and your true identity were known, I would be the first one in line to report you to CPS for child neglect/endangerment. I'm sure that there would be a long line behind me.

I pray that someone who knows you will step in to protect your kids, because you sure as h### don't care about them!

[Rushia]

Originally Posted by crstna

I am a mother of 2 engaged to a considered sex offender. When my fiancee was 18 he had a relationship with a 13 year old. Her parents were okay with it. And they didnt even show up to court against him. His lawyer told him to plea guilty. With no evidence. How can we fight this? Now, He has lived in this state for 3 years with family and they brought it back on him. So he got into trouble. I know him VERY WELL and he is no sex predator!!!! We have been together for a while and planned to get married but now we are told that he can't be around my babies. Who they consider as Daddy. How can we legally all live together under the same roof? This is breaking our hearts!!!! Can we move or what can be done???What is the name of your state? Ohio

I noticed that you changed your story from earlier today. It doesn't matter how you try to spin it, it still makes you as sick as he is. What happens when your child turns 13? Don't you read the news? So what if her parents thought it was OK. He thought she was pretty hot for a 13 year old. So I repeat: What happens when your child turns 13.

[zippysgoddess]

Let's set forth a scenario here, courtesy of John Douglas, what if someone came up to you and told you that your attraction for men was suddenly wrong, immoral, and illegal? You may be able to control yourself and stay out of legal trouble, but it still would not change your fancy and get you to dislike men.

A pedophile does not change his preferences, he has acted on them once and will act on them again. No laws, or punishments can change a person's nature. Yes, you should not be allowed to have your children around him, I would be in line to report you as well.

[ablessin]

I agree 100% - - - - you can't go by his word, because HELLO - HE IS GOING TO SAY WHAT HE THINKS YOU WANT TO HEAR to get into your pants, and probably your kids pants too!


hello-freaking-o - - - - -you are so sick for liking this guy, letting him around your "babies"

How the heck would you feel if 5 or 10 years from now, or hell, even 20 - you find out he did violate your kids???????????????

RUN