What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? South Carolina
Hello, I have a question that I'm having a hard time getting an answer to. I'm getting married next year in South Carolina, and I have a question about the legality of the ceremony. One of my family members is a reverend but not an ordained minister, so he cannot legally marry us. However, we want him to do the "ceremony," in that we want him to do all the speaking, vows, exchange of rings, etc. We know that he cannot legally declare us husband and wife, but we want to keep this a family affair, so we would really like for him to do the ceremony.
My aunt, however, is a notary public, which can perform marriages legally in SC. After the "fake ceremony," we wanted to go back with her and our witnesses and make it all official. I'm assuming we would have to do a mini-ceremony with her as well. Just as background, she isn't really a public speaker and is not comfortable actually performing the ceremony in front of our guests.
My question is, is this legal? I've called around to several different courts, and no one will give me an answer. All they are able to tell me is WHO can marry us; not HOW they can marry us. I'm sure that other people have had this same type issue arise, but I haven't been able to find anything online.
IF this is legal, is there anything that we should avoid (particular language or sections of the traditional marriage ceremony)? I want to be able to tell my reverend family member so that everyone is comfortable with the process, and we can ensure that this is all legal.
Thanks in advance.
Hello, I have a question that I'm having a hard time getting an answer to. I'm getting married next year in South Carolina, and I have a question about the legality of the ceremony. One of my family members is a reverend but not an ordained minister, so he cannot legally marry us. However, we want him to do the "ceremony," in that we want him to do all the speaking, vows, exchange of rings, etc. We know that he cannot legally declare us husband and wife, but we want to keep this a family affair, so we would really like for him to do the ceremony.
My aunt, however, is a notary public, which can perform marriages legally in SC. After the "fake ceremony," we wanted to go back with her and our witnesses and make it all official. I'm assuming we would have to do a mini-ceremony with her as well. Just as background, she isn't really a public speaker and is not comfortable actually performing the ceremony in front of our guests.
My question is, is this legal? I've called around to several different courts, and no one will give me an answer. All they are able to tell me is WHO can marry us; not HOW they can marry us. I'm sure that other people have had this same type issue arise, but I haven't been able to find anything online.
IF this is legal, is there anything that we should avoid (particular language or sections of the traditional marriage ceremony)? I want to be able to tell my reverend family member so that everyone is comfortable with the process, and we can ensure that this is all legal.
Thanks in advance.