mess!

i am from new jersey .
a month ago my wife left to her parents house accusing me of having an affair with someone in india.
i told her that i did have an affair with a girl ,but that was all before our marriage .and i questioned her how she can expect me to have an affair with someone who is in india and me in america.
i accept that i should have told her about my past and she came to know about my past from a relative in inda.
she is more angry that why i didnt tell her about it . and she still does not want to talk to me .
i just dont want to ruin my marriage for a petty thing which can be resolved with open mind
please advise what i should i do

[LegalBeagle]

Originally posted by parimal
i am from new jersey .
a month ago my wife left to her parents house accusing me of having an affair with someone in india.
i told her that i did have an affair with a girl ,but that was all before our marriage .and i questioned her how she can expect me to have an affair with someone who is in india and me in america.
i accept that i should have told her about my past and she came to know about my past from a relative in inda.
she is more angry that why i didnt tell her about it . and she still does not want to talk to me .
i just dont want to ruin my marriage for a petty thing which can be resolved with open mind
please advise what i should i do

1. Take a vacation
2. Buy a Country album filled with depressing songs
3. Buy a really cool car, lose weight, comb your hair back and go cruising
4. Buy her an open mind
5. Tell her she is being petty, childish and should grow up!
6. Have a real affair so she really will have something to be p!ssed about

Good Luck!