More of advice than legal matter

[kcs00]

What is the name of your state? GA

My qeustion is me and my aunt had an argument and now she wont talk to me. I started when she left her 5 month old baby with my mom my mom is a very soft-spoken woman so she would say anything,but she was getting ready to go somewhere and was not going to keep the baby so to make a long story short I called her and told her to come pick up her child and she got mad and made some remarks about my daughter being at my moms,which she only goes if I go or my mother calls for her and I told her that and now she is mad and not talking to me. shes 37 years old and im 23 years old please help, because the whole thing is stupid

First of all take a breath. And learn to use punctuation. You have a very large, emotional sentence that no one but me can make sense of. And I can only divine the purpose of your post because I spent 15 years editing and publishing a variety of newspapers from people who couldn't write.

As far as your aunt goes, why would you feel the need to justify yourself to her? This is nothing more than a control game using the "Poor Me" gambit. In other words, you're better off without her "speaking" to you.

By the way, you're right. The whole thing is stupid. So treat it as such and don't waste time worrying about it.

[nextwife]

Your mom has a right to choose to watch or not watch any child that is not hers at her own discretion. She has NO obligation to watch anyone elses child and has the option to do so if and when she wishes or can. Your aunt has no business EXPECTING your mom to watch her kid. I don't expect my own mom to watch my daughter - just very occassionally when she feels well enough and offers to do so. You need not justify your child's right to be with her grandmother if Grandmother wishes, nor your mother's right to go elsewhere when she so wishes.