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Old 12-19-2006, 04:19 PM
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Mother-In-Law Harrasing

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If my mother in law came to america after her visa was approved for multiple entries and she threatened me before she left the house after she lived with my husband and me for a month, can I have her muliple visa revocted because she mistreated me?
Is there any way I can do this anonymusly so save my marriage?What is the name of your state?
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Old 12-19-2006, 04:51 PM
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no you can't have her visa revoked just because your life would be easier without her.

Wow, and do it anonymously, so you want to have immigration storm her house in the night, anonymously and cart her off. Nice.

marriage advice. sorry, looks doomed from where I am sitting.
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Old 12-19-2006, 04:57 PM
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I am not sure I really understand your question, how did she threaten you? why not just not allow her in your home any more?
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Old 12-19-2006, 05:02 PM
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She threated my marriage life after we have been married for 4 years she comes to visit us for the 1st time and she claimed that I am supposed to do all the house work and that my husband is KEEPING me in his house and in reality this is really her house because my husband was her son first and than I married him.
I can't NOT let her in my house other wise my husband would ask me to leave...
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Old 12-19-2006, 05:05 PM
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She threated my marriage life after we have been married for 4 years she comes to visit us for the 1st time and she claimed that I am supposed to do all the house work and that my husband is KEEPING me in his house and in reality this is really her house because my husband was her son first and than I married him.
I can't NOT let her in my house other wise my husband would ask me to leave...
Aw, you know how those crazy foreigners are! Always telling it like it is.
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Old 12-19-2006, 05:06 PM
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She threated my marriage life after we have been married for 4 years she comes to visit us for the 1st time and she claimed that I am supposed to do all the house work and that my husband is KEEPING me in his house and in reality this is really her house because my husband was her son first and than I married him.
I can't NOT let her in my house other wise my husband would ask me to leave...
Hon, if every insulted daughter-in-law was allowed to send her mother-in-law back to the homeland, every boat in the world would be full.

This isn't a legal issue. It's personal. If you allow your husband to treat you 2nd to his mother, then you'll be 2nd. If you want to leave him, leave him. Simple as that, legally.
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Old 12-19-2006, 05:08 PM
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Hon, if every insulted daughter-in-law was allowed to send her mother-in-law back to the homeland, every boat in the world would be full.

This isn't a legal issue. It's personal. If you allow your husband to treat you 2nd to his mother, then you'll be 2nd. If you want to leave him, leave him. Simple as that, legally.
yep- he has the family he was born into, and then he has the family he chose....which is more important to him.....if it's not the second, you might as well leave now, been there done that....it really won't get better if he is not on your side
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Say, tell us her nationality, maybe we can come up with some tactics to drive her out!
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Hon, if every insulted daughter-in-law was allowed to send her mother-in-law back to the homeland, every boat in the world would be full.

This isn't a legal issue. It's personal. If you allow your husband to treat you 2nd to his mother, then you'll be 2nd. If you want to leave him, leave him. Simple as that, legally.
So I'd like to know where, you got the notion
Said I'd like to know where, you got the notion
To rock the boat, don't rock the boat baby
Rock the boat, don't tip the boat over
Rock the boat, don't rock the boat baby
Rock the boat
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Say, tell us her nationality, maybe we can come up with some tactics to drive her out!
Happy = Funny
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So I'd like to know where, you got the notion
Said I'd like to know where, you got the notion
To rock the boat, don't rock the boat baby
Rock the boat, don't tip the boat over
Rock the boat, don't rock the boat baby
Rock the boat
I don't understand...what does this means...???

and also to your previous comment. the reason why I wanted to do it because I wanted to SAVE MY MARRIAGE...if you know what I mean.
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Old 12-20-2006, 03:57 PM
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Happy = Funny
Thank you. How would her nationality help?
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Old 12-20-2006, 04:01 PM
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no you can't have her visa revoked just because your life would be easier without her.

Wow, and do it anonymously, so you want to have immigration storm her house in the night, anonymously and cart her off. Nice.

marriage advice. sorry, looks doomed from where I am sitting.
I am not trying to have her visa revoked just because that would make my life easier, I am doing it because I but a lot in this marriage and I want to save it if I can.
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Old 12-20-2006, 04:06 PM
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I am not trying to have her visa revoked just because that would make my life easier, I am doing it because I but a lot in this marriage and I want to save it if I can.

Bottom line, if your husband always puts his mommy before you, the marriage will NEVER work, no matter how much effort YOU put into it. Don't waste your time, energy, love and money on a "man" who is a doormat/mommy's boy.
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Old 12-20-2006, 04:10 PM
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I am not trying to have her visa revoked just because that would make my life easier, I am doing it because I but a lot in this marriage and I want to save it if I can.
the answer is no, nothing that you have posted indicates any reason that her visa should/could/would be revoked.

You better think of another way to save your marriage
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