My mother stole my identity..well sorta

[CATsAngel]

I'm in Illinois. I'll try to keep it short and sweet but here is a link to my husbands blog if you want details [url]http://instantlykarmic.blogspot.com/2007/03/my-former-mother-in-law.html[/url] .

Winter 06/07 my mother met a boy, Andy, on an MMORPG called Star wars. She eventually stole pics of me off my myspace page and came over to my home asking for more (saying she was making an online photo album) Made a fake myspace of me, named me Lisa, and contiued to have an online relationship with this boy. Lisa and Andy eventually got engaged and he wanted to meet her face to face to give her the ring. My mom comes over and tells me this and wants me to fufill my roll as Lisa. I told her hell no cuz I'm married and have 2 children.

Several weeks later my mom tells me that Andy has been kicked out of his home and is moving into her house. Shetold me she had Lisa write him and confess she was really married with 2 children (and gave him all our REAL names) and he was to never contact her. again. My husband had a fit! called my mom told her never to come near us again.Then he also emailed Andy and told him what was really up and to never try to contact me.

Things seemed to be going ok, we ran into them once in public and they kept their distance, up until a couple weeks ago. I guess Andy found my real myspace page (so apparently he is very angry and still looking for me) and sent me some short but nasty emails saying I screwed with his life. I then emailed him and told him it was my mother who screwed with him and to never contact me again.

Fast foward to today. My ex husband picks up my 7 year old son and takes him to the train station. They are gonna visit my x's family for a few days. Later I get a phone call from my x telling me my mom and Andy were at the train station sending him to St. Louis (same train my son was on). Apparently my mom decided since I wasn't there she could approach them and while the conversation was civil. This boy now knows what my kid looks like and I'm a little freaked out. He hates me, knows my name and now knows what my children look like. I was gonna do OP/RO against them but apparently physical violence has be threatened. I dont know if there is anything at all I can do to make sure these two stay away from me and my family. I"m freaking out here.

[LdiJ]

I don't have the slightest idea what to suggest.

[CATsAngel]

LOL you just can't make this stuff up.

[LdiJ]

Originally Posted by CATsAngel

LOL you just can't make this stuff up.

Its nuts....and your mother is a serious lunatic. I would be highly tempted to move without a forwarding address. Absent that, I honestly don't know what else you could do at this point....other than perhaps to make the whole thing very public, with your mother's husband and with the guy.

[CATsAngel]

That's what my husband wants to do. I figured writing her a letter and "threatening" OP/RO (since they dont' technically know i can't) against them if they didn't stay away would do quite nicely. then everything would be out in the open and my step dad would know therefore threatening my mom's marriage and the boys's shelter. (he's 18 now btw). Moving however nice it may seem is impossible at this point.