What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Oregon
I have an ex that is now engaged to a woman who thinks she is apart of everything that goes on. Well I have a 13 month old with this ex. We broke up the end of January and he got with his fiance immediatly. Well I filed for Joint Custody and now think that is a BIG mistake. We have gone to mediation back in April and agreed to him getting the baby two nights every other weekend, all father's day weekend and split holidays. Well he refused to sign the mediation papers and the time lapsed. Well now we have to go back to mediation next month and he is all upset cuz i reserved him the petition and summons thru certified mail and he recieved it before they told me when the mediation date is and said that I am serving him only cuz I knew he was gonna call the mediator. My ex did tell me that he was gonna call the mediator and that was all I knew. Never heard another word about it until I asked IF he ever called and I mailed that copy off to him before I found out the date of mediation. So far since we have broken up he has only taken his son twice and has had two additional visitations set up that he was a no call/no show. And expects me to call to arrange the visitations. I really don't want my child in that house since his other kids from his first marriage don't want to go over there. He has three kids from his first marriage. Luckily I never married this man. His kids have told me about how him and his fiance has bad mouthed me around them and the youngest of his daughters who is 10 mentioned my name one day and he yelled at her for it. I am afraid of what might happen to my son with this kind of behaviour over there. My ex thinks that I should be the one contacting him and I refuse to go there. I will contact him if there is an emergency but that is IT.. Can someone please help me??
I have an ex that is now engaged to a woman who thinks she is apart of everything that goes on. Well I have a 13 month old with this ex. We broke up the end of January and he got with his fiance immediatly. Well I filed for Joint Custody and now think that is a BIG mistake. We have gone to mediation back in April and agreed to him getting the baby two nights every other weekend, all father's day weekend and split holidays. Well he refused to sign the mediation papers and the time lapsed. Well now we have to go back to mediation next month and he is all upset cuz i reserved him the petition and summons thru certified mail and he recieved it before they told me when the mediation date is and said that I am serving him only cuz I knew he was gonna call the mediator. My ex did tell me that he was gonna call the mediator and that was all I knew. Never heard another word about it until I asked IF he ever called and I mailed that copy off to him before I found out the date of mediation. So far since we have broken up he has only taken his son twice and has had two additional visitations set up that he was a no call/no show. And expects me to call to arrange the visitations. I really don't want my child in that house since his other kids from his first marriage don't want to go over there. He has three kids from his first marriage. Luckily I never married this man. His kids have told me about how him and his fiance has bad mouthed me around them and the youngest of his daughters who is 10 mentioned my name one day and he yelled at her for it. I am afraid of what might happen to my son with this kind of behaviour over there. My ex thinks that I should be the one contacting him and I refuse to go there. I will contact him if there is an emergency but that is IT.. Can someone please help me??